Gf wont get horny

[kiddo2002]

idk why but my gf just wont get horny no matter what i try and we love eachother but she doesnt like to have fun

[West Coast Sheriff]

:eek:
Well how old ate you? Maybe you ate to young and she's not ready for that kinda stuff. Maybe she's more romantic and doesn't like sex but likes you.
:cool:

[Fable]

calm down! wait a while, dont try to force her give her time

[Giles]

There's really not a lot we can do without knowing how old you are, how old she is, how long you've been together, what type of personality she has, what have her previous relationships been like, what are her parents like, what are your parents like, is she religious etc.

[StoppingTime]

:arrow: Relationships and Dating. You will find better answers here.

However, do not give out any kind of sexual techniques; relationship advice is fine, but nothing more.

[FreeFall]

I hate when my boyfriend tries to force me into the mood. Pestering me will only make me less what you want and prolong the wait of getting me in the mood.

Leave her alone and do something else, other things can be fun. Her sex drive's probably lower than your's, she's not ready, she doesn't want to. Just wait and let it be.

[Mortal Coil]

You might be a little too young anyway. Maybe you should stop trying to pressure her and either deal with it or find someone who has similar priorities.

[kenoloor]

Endocrinology research has concluded that a majority of biological males are horny as fuck. The same research has also concluded that a majority of biological females are not horny as fuck. Do the math.

[Thepolice5291]

Let her be Have a "wank", Don't force her to do sexual stuff to you if she doesn't want to.
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[Twilly F. Sniper]

idk why but my gf just wont get horny no matter what i try and we love eachother but she doesnt like to have fun

Calm down! This just proves the fact, guys are obsessed with sex.

[xXJust Jump ItXx]

Guessing youre on the younger teen side... She may not want to and just wanna do other things. The last thing on my mind ever with my girlfriend is sex and that stuff... Id really rather be cuddling and kissing her. Dont rush into sex and that stuff.

[Giles]

Calm down! This just proves the fact, guys are obsessed with sex.

Generalisations are bad.

[Apollo.]

You realise you trying to push her into doing things will just make it take longer! Sex is never really a planned thing it just happens usually. You should focus more on making her happy and comfortable around you, show her what she means to you and then you might be able to move things on

[Twilly F. Sniper]

Generalisations are bad.

You have a point but, Im just clarifying that the general concensus of men go after women for the sex, not the love, and this post just proves how much (this guy) and most other guys are in it for the sex.

[VerilyKnown]

Wild guess says you're new to this.

If you love her, relax and take your time (Though honestly if you're caught up on this, I doubt that).

[kiddo2002]

the thing is im not new to this weve been dating for years she's 16 im 14 were a happy couple

[FreeFall]

Dating for years, how many years? Like 2 years or 5? Yes, it actually does matter. Age, school, maturity, emotional levels, it's all factored.

Bottom line, she's not in the mood. Play some video games with her or something for when she's not as horny as you, don't push it. Though I will say, it sucks when the other isn't in the mood when you are.

[SpasticatedPengiun]

I know Im not a stud or anything but I will say that girls dont like to be rushed when it comes to sex (unless you live in the world of jersey shore).

[Mondevil]

Either she's not attracted to you so you should act more manly (you don't have to be a dick). Or she's the type of girl who just doesn't like sex. Some girls just aren't sexual... with anybody. It's not very common, but it's out there.