Obsession? with YouTube Dude

[wild1]

I don't know if this question belongs here so mods please move it if it should be somewhere else. My problem is this .. I found a youtube of a guy singer Jordan Jansen and started liking him a real lot right away. He has a channel and posts a lot of song covers all the time. He's really good :) and has an awesome personality too and he's my age. Lately I've been almost obsessed with him and check his twitter and keek ALL the time. I don't think I'm interested in him sexually because I don't masterbate thinking about him (yet) or anything but there's something about him that gets to me. Since last year I thought I might be bi. Is this a bi attraction or is it something else and should I stop following him on twitter or what should I do?

[dontfiguremeout]

Umm, well you'll have to find out if your bi, if you just go along with it! You don't need to label yourself, which in fact isn't a good idea right now if your confused on your sexuality! Just kinda experiment, try new things out just to see what you actually are! Doesn't mean that your actually bi or gay, just means your trying things out to make sure what you are! So don't be worrying about this a whole lot bud! And don't need to stop following him on twitter, if you really don't want to stop!

[Skyhawk]

Don't rush to label yourself. It could just be raging hormones. :)

[HunterSteele]

If you think you're obsessed with Jordan Jansen, you definitely don't want to search for Carson Lueders.

I feel the same way about him, but I already know I'm gay so there's nothing to be confused about. I like his What Makes You Beautiful video (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h3CoQy2Ha4I), although every time I watch it it just makes me feel bad.

[TigerBoy]

The boy is cute, and I'd totally understand why you'd feel attraction at some level. Only you would know about your sexuality, its not always a "euraka" moment so even if you do end up fantasizing about him sexually it may not be significant. All I can say is if you like the boy and his music stick with it. Its only unhealthy if you start stalking or similar. But if you are going to have bi thoughts, he's a good candidate for fantasies tbh :)

[wild1]

The boy is cute, and I'd totally understand why you'd feel attraction at some level. Only you would know about your sexuality, its not always a "euraka" moment so even if you do end up fantasizing about him sexually it may not be significant. All I can say is if you like the boy and his music stick with it. Its only unhealthy if you start stalking or similar. But if you are going to have bi thoughts, he's a good candidate for fantasies tbh :)

Thanks for the advice Olly. He's a cool guy for sure :) But almost everybody who likes him is a girl and hardly any boys follow him except for me but I'd never stalk him because he lives on the other side of the world and I'd never do that anyhow.

[wild1]

Umm, well you'll have to find out if your bi, if you just go along with it! You don't need to label yourself, which in fact isn't a good idea right now if your confused on your sexuality! Just kinda experiment, try new things out just to see what you actually are! Doesn't mean that your actually bi or gay, just means your trying things out to make sure what you are! So don't be worrying about this a whole lot bud! And don't need to stop following him on twitter, if you really don't want to stop!

Ok I won't get all worried about it and thanks for helping :)

[Danny_boi 16]

Don't rush to label yourself. It could just be raging hormones. :)

find yourself first. However, i can't tell you how because its different for everyone.

[TigerBoy]

But almost everybody who likes him is a girl and hardly any boys follow him

Well you kind of have a choice there : either hide yourself away out of fear of what other people might think (which is totally understandable) or live your life as you want to enjoy it.

I think the whole issue really is that you are second guessing everything you do right now in case its another sign you like boys. My advice is let the rest of the world mind their own business and you like / admire / fancy / shag who you want to.

[West Coast Sheriff]

I think you should continue doing what you are doing. It seems you may have mixed feelings or are unsure of them. I think you should follow your heart, which may have not made an opinion yet. Either way, whatever you do good luck:D