Log in

View Full Version : Distance issue :( please help


Lienhart
September 27th, 2012, 06:09 PM
I'm a gay 16 year old boy who is dating a 20 year old guy (don't judge, there's nothing wrong with it) and we have gotten along so great, I honestly feel he's my soulmate and were so in love with each other and never fight and I feel like we almost never will. But the problem is, he's been able to drive me back to his dorm at his college, but now his parents are taking back the car they gave him to use for college (i forgot why exactly) and now I can't see him. It breaks my heart and I couldn't stop crying. I saw him yesterday all day and we couldn't let go of each other or say goodbye- it just hurt so much. I can't drive now, and neither can he.

PLEASE, does anyone have any suggestions on how we can continue to see each other? I can't ask anyone to drive me because I'm not out of the closet, and he can't because he doesn't want to inconvinience his friends. We're about a half hour away driving... Please give me some solutions. I can't think of anything and I'm hurting so bad. I also can't use a bus cause I don't think any come here, and taxi is like $40 each way (ill pay it if that's my only option left)
Thank you guys so much in advance

DerBear
September 27th, 2012, 06:29 PM
Well first of all I would like to say sorry for your predicament as it has to be hard on you and your boyfriend.

I would look further into the bus option as you never know it could still be an option as you are not 100% sure. You could also look at trains as they can be an effective method of transport. I could also mention walking but if it is half an hour away of driving then it would be a very tiring journey.

I don't honestly know because you haven't mentioned if a train would be possible. Other than that I don't really know what to suggest because there are only so many realistic methods of transport.

If all things failing then you might need to consider using social networking as a means of contact however it is not really the same at all.

I hope you do find a solution to your problem.

Lienhart
September 27th, 2012, 07:15 PM
Well first of all I would like to say sorry for your predicament as it has to be hard on you and your boyfriend.

I would look further into the bus option as you never know it could still be an option as you are not 100% sure. You could also look at trains as they can be an effective method of transport. I could also mention walking but if it is half an hour away of driving then it would be a very tiring journey.

I don't honestly know because you haven't mentioned if a train would be possible. Other than that I don't really know what to suggest because there are only so many realistic methods of transport.

If all things failing then you might need to consider using social networking as a means of contact however it is not really the same at all.

I hope you do find a solution to your problem.

Thank you :) and yeah I don't know if there's any buses around me... I live in New Jersey so it's not like the city or anything /: it's not easy. And yeah no trains here..

And yeah I don't want to just like text him and stuff. I want him with me, by me... And it hurts so bad to not have him beside me.