Just.. i dont know anymore. Please help...

[Quercus]

Ok im 17. My girlfriend and i have been dating for 7 months. We have been fairly happy for all of them..
The other night she told me she needed a break, a short one so i was like ok. Well time dragged on till today i called her today. And i see all over her fb like nothing is wrong... she still hangs out with all of her friends, talks to all her family but not me.
This is her first serious relationship. And she has talked about getting married, showed me rings (i know alittle fast)
I dont really know if shes emotionally ready for me? She told me i was the best boyfriend ever. And honestly i may be a pretty good one?

I dont know what to think? Any help? I will give more detalis if asked

[FreeFall]

How long was the break? Is it still on?

You're both still young, even the most serious teen couples need a little time a part. The funny thing about teenage girls, we've this ability to be happy sunshine rainbows one second, and loathing all that crosses our path the next. She may indeed be very serious about you, but don't chisel it into concrete until it happens. She may have personal things going on she'd like to resolve, maybe she thinks she's keeping you from fun things and doesn't want to hog all your time?

[Quercus]

How long was the break? Is it still on?

You're both still young, even the most serious teen couples need a little time a part. The funny thing about teenage girls, we've this ability to be happy sunshine rainbows one second, and loathing all that crosses our path the next. She may indeed be very serious about you, but don't chisel it into concrete until it happens. She may have personal things going on she'd like to resolve, maybe she thinks she's keeping you from fun things and doesn't want to hog all your time?

She said a few days... yea its still going

Im not sure what to do? I almost dont want to give her her time. Caise i have no idea whats going on in her head??

[Gordo]

I'd need to know a lot more before I could help you. A ton actually. Here's a loaded question, it's THE question, what's been going with you (plural) for the previous two months.

Disagreements of any kind?
An argument?
Are you a controlling kind of guy?
Is she a drama queen?
What's your sex life like? Has that changed? Is she satisfied?
Anything happen between you and her family?
Did you do something that you're not proud of and thought she'd never find out about a while back? Maybe something before you even started dating that caught up with you? Sometimes the rumor mill is slow. "who's your daughter dating? ohhhh, that guy...."

Girls like to be chased and once your dating that chase is over. Sometimes I wonder if girls or guys want a break because their lives got to be routine. One way to break the routine and start the chase up again is a mini break. However, if you're a clingy controlling guy that needs to know what she's doing all the time, then being chased would annoy her. That's why I said I'd need to know a lot more.

But something has changed either in the relationship or with you or with her. Something caused her to choose now for this break and because you haven't mentioned anything, then I'm guessing it's something subtle.

Maybe one of you changed your goals? Or what ya think ya wanna do after high school? She have a new friend or someone she's been spending more time with the past two months that she didn't spend as much time with the previous 5 months. Maybe this person doesn't think you are a good match.

Have you added a new friend? Maybe she doesn't like him?