How to ditch a girl?

[Glasgow]

Hey, well i have this girl in my business class who somehow got my MSN and flirts with me non-stop. Its becoming really annoying since she keeps saying she likes me although ive never really talked to her, so i thought of an idea to tell her i have a girlfriend from another school. So i did that but she still flirts with me, i really need a good idea on how to avoid her. I sit beside her in class, i think she planned that. Any ideas? Sorry if this isnt in the right section.

[Serenity]

This section is fine, no worries.

My 2 cents: the fake girlfriend was a bad idea. You need to be open and honest with her. If you just have another girlfriend, she sees you as available for stealing, hence she still flirts like crazy. If you tell her flat out, "look, I just don't like you like that," chances are she'll back off.

[Glasgow]

Alright, well if she continues to flirt with me, ill say that me and my girlfriend broke up because we never saw eachother. But also that i just dont like her like that, and its getting annoying. That a good idea? :P Ive sort of gotten myself into a mess

[Gumleaf]

i just wouldn't mention the girlfriend anymore unless she talks about it. you have dug yourself deep enough into that hole. i agree with val, if she knows your not interested maybe she will stop. if you don't tell her, she will probably just assume you are enjoying the flirting and keep on doing it.

[Octo22]

Ask "Would you let me *sexually explicit act here" after having ignored her for a little. Guaranteed to scare any girl away ;D

[Glasgow]

Alright. Well im limiting my conversation with her now, using one word replies. We will see what happens

[byee]

This section is fine, no worries.

My 2 cents: the fake girlfriend was a bad idea. You need to be open and honest with her. If you just have another girlfriend, she sees you as available for stealing, hence she still flirts like crazy. If you tell her flat out, "look, I just don't like you like that," chances are she'll back off.


yuppers, i agree with Valerie. Tell her directly and to the point that you do not like her and you want her to leave you alone. Anything less than that (even 'one word answers') gives her the impression that you're available to her. You need to be clear here, tell her you do not like her and you want her to leve you alone.

[Aηdy]

I agree with Val, just tell her straight how you feel, although be nice about it but still get the point accross, because you don't wanna hurt her feelings.

[Glasgow]

I managed to only say one word to her today. Yay for me :D

[RaisingSand]

I think barely saying anything to her is a bad idea, as was the fake girlfriend. :/ IMO you need to be straight with her, then maybe ask your teacher if you can sit somewhere else in class, not near her.

[organickush]

just be straight with her

[rockNroll]

Stop using MSN. It's not 1998 anymore. Problem solved.

[Ambrosia]

Please don't bump super old threads! :) :locked: