What is going on??

[Trickster]

When i look at guys and ones naked i get an erection which makes my penis rock-hard but when i see a girl naked or girls i get a tingle in my penis and it gets tense not an erection. Like it wants to have an erection when i see a girl what is going on:confused:

[Joe3140]

OMG u have a rare disease. Its called teencurioustiyitous. The only cure is to wait it out. You're not gay so dont worry.

[Gumleaf]

i wouldn't completely rule out being gay. however, you are going through a period where your hormones are racing and making your body do strange things. there is no need to worry about it at the moment. things will settle down in time and then you will have a better idea of what turns you on and off and then you may be able to discover your sexuality.

[Camazotz]

It doesnt mean youre gay. Its raging hormones. At the right time, YOU will know if youre gay or not.

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

I have a feeling you are just curious. Most teens are like that. Around 18 or 19 you should be able to get a good sense of your sexuality. but until then, it is all confusing.

[byee]

Yeah, it's puberty, all right.

Let me put a different spin on this. I once heard my Dad the Shrink say that teen guys get aroused by teen guys more than teen girls because when teen guys look at teen girls they get excited and nervous at the same time and nothing kills excitement like nervousness. The nervousness isn't there with other guys, and because teen guys can get excited looking at door knobs, without the nervousness, it's easy for them to get aroused by penises, too. They are, afterall, sexual!

[underoath12192]

Hormones...they're so amazing but yet so annoying. DOn't worry I've experienced the same thing.

[mustang225]

Dont worry it happens to me too.....

[jakejohn]

it's part of puberty.. so i wouldn't call myself gay so soon.

[Crazysam]

puberty puberty puberty...

don't worry mate its just your hormones going wild making you curious which is a stage most guys go through so don't worry mate :D

[Trickster]

OMG u have a rare disease. Its called teencurioustiyitous. The only cure is to wait it out. You're not gay so dont worry.
lol that is funny. you scared me for a bit with the word"disease". and IAMSAM thatnks that was helpful because youre right i feel nervous with a girl that looks good or cute because i think "what if they say no? what if thet think im a loser? what if they dont like me and reject me!?!?!" Never saw it like that. Guess i gotta wait it out so i can be free from my diesease teencutiousityious.
So the tingle is just my penis wanting to erect but im nervous from the girl i mentioned earlier and my penis stays quiet and nervous like me right?

[Joe3140]

lol that is funny. you scared me for a bit with the word"disease". and IAMSAM thatnks that was helpful because youre right i feel nervous with a girl that looks good or cute because i think "what if they say no? what if thet think im a loser? what if they dont like me and reject me!?!?!" Never saw it like that. Guess i gotta wait it out so i can be free from my diesease teencutiousityious.
So the tingle is just my penis wanting to erect but im nervous from the girl i mentioned earlier and my penis stays quiet and nervous like me right?

Dude dont worry your just fine. And if you really like this girl go ahead and ask her out. The worst that happens is she says no and unless thats the end of the world for you its worth a shot. Dont be afraid to go be yourself. Ask her out :yeah:

And btw i think if your actually gay (your not) you would know it deep down and wouldnt be posting this kinda stuff.

[Trickster]

o no and please dont stary off topic. There is a girl i like but i was wondering why my penis tingled like a said in the beginging. and i will try when im ready but i will make a topic of that later :)

[Tatsuya]

:lol:Yeah, it's puberty, all right.

Let me put a different spin on this. I once heard my Dad the Shrink say that teen guys get aroused by teen guys more than teen girls because when teen guys look at teen girls they get excited and nervous at the same time and nothing kills excitement like nervousness. The nervousness isn't there with other guys, and because teen guys can get excited looking at door knobs, without the nervousness, it's easy for them to get aroused by penises, too. They are, afterall, sexual!


Yup,you`re dad are just right.....it happen to me sometimes but not about the girl stuff......maybe:lol:

[RaisingSand]

It's okay, you're just feeling curious. :) While I wouldn't completely being gay or bisexual, I don't think you have anything to worry about, you're young, still going through puberty and at that time your hormones are running riot, things will settle down in a few years. :)

[byee]

lol that is funny. you scared me for a bit with the word"disease". and IAMSAM thatnks that was helpful because youre right i feel nervous with a girl that looks good or cute because i think "what if they say no? what if thet think im a loser? what if they dont like me and reject me!?!?!" Never saw it like that. Guess i gotta wait it out so i can be free from my diesease teencutiousityious.
So the tingle is just my penis wanting to erect but im nervous from the girl i mentioned earlier and my penis stays quiet and nervous like me right?


Yes, I think that 'tingle' is the part that says 'Wow!', but as your sig very accurately says it's hard being 13, this is all new, and it takes time to adjust to it all. until then, the nervousness (caused by the newness of it all) overpowers the other part, so you're a bit, um, flat. Don't worry, it'll pass.