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Pyro99
September 26th, 2012, 01:49 PM
Hey buddies:D For about 4 months now, I've been pretty sure I can cum. I mean, during summer, a lot of times I had sexual dreams, woke up for a few seconds with a weird feeling in my dick, and in the morning I'd find dry white stains in my briefs. The thing is, even though ut's obviously cum, I jerk off a lot, but I've never actually cum like that.:confused: I mean, how long does it take you to cum?:confused: Once I was jerking off for like, five minutes, but nothing! Little help?

Aaron55
September 26th, 2012, 06:39 PM
Don't know what to say man, all this stuff is pretty normal to take a while. Could be a week or a year before you start, who really knows. But idk, if you really want to, try building up for a long period of time?

uberwhal3
September 26th, 2012, 07:36 PM
Maybe it takes you a while...lol. I think thats considered a gift.

ExhibitG
September 26th, 2012, 08:09 PM
Hey buddies:D For about 4 months now, I've been pretty sure I can cum. I mean, during summer, a lot of times I had sexual dreams, woke up for a few seconds with a weird feeling in my dick, and in the morning I'd find dry white stains in my briefs. The thing is, even though ut's obviously cum, I jerk off a lot, but I've never actually cum like that.:confused: I mean, how long does it take you to cum?:confused: Once I was jerking off for like, five minutes, but nothing! Little help?

actually i used to be the same way. i would cum during wet dreams but jerking off there wouldn't be anything. trust me, one time you'll eventually get so insanely horny that it will happen lol. just gotta wait it out.

Wesl3y
September 26th, 2012, 09:28 PM
Are you jerking off for five minutes and having an orgasm, or just jerking off and not having an orgasm?

Pyro99
September 27th, 2012, 07:51 AM
I dont have an orgasm.

Darunia
September 27th, 2012, 10:42 AM
You need to masturbate longer. 5mins is rather short. It is only when you reach orgasm that you'll ejaculate.

farmer42296
September 27th, 2012, 03:45 PM
Sometimes it takes me up to 10 minutes to cum

BeJared
September 27th, 2012, 04:01 PM
You need to masturbate longer. 5mins is rather short. It is only when you reach orgasm that you'll ejaculate.

Ok, I have a question for you, Darunia, How come it always takes me Less than 5 minutes to ejaculate? i never get a long session. 6 minutes was my longest one.
... Ever...

Human
September 27th, 2012, 04:15 PM
you might not of developed fully yet

BeJared
September 27th, 2012, 04:38 PM
Are you answering my question Condor, or Pyro's?

TotalDbag
September 27th, 2012, 04:45 PM
is it just out of the blue you can't ejaculate? Have you done it before and successfully ejaculated?

Pyro99
September 28th, 2012, 08:18 AM
Ive never ejaculated before while jerking off.

ExhibitG
September 28th, 2012, 12:55 PM
Ive never ejaculated before while jerking off.

i used to be exactly like you. seriously. the first time i did was when i was 17, even though i had been having wet dreams since i was like 15 or 16. you're totally fine.

Fable
September 29th, 2012, 06:33 AM
dont worry it will come...

pankakeman
October 3rd, 2012, 01:28 PM
You should think about things that make you harder and hornier. Doing that could make you ejaculate cum.

But perhaps your just not ready to cum yet, takes some people longer than others, or, if your me, incredibly early.

Straight
October 3rd, 2012, 01:34 PM
Your 13... It will take a while...

jokermaster101
October 3rd, 2012, 01:43 PM
try to just get as much privacy as you can because maybe you do need a lot of time to reach climax.

wet dreams are a sign that you need to do it more. but nothing to worry about.

Empire3
October 15th, 2012, 11:43 PM
Once it took me 30 mins!!!!! nearly hurt my poor big dick

West Coast Sheriff
October 15th, 2012, 11:46 PM
Don't worry, you'll be able to soon.

Scottydog
October 16th, 2012, 06:34 PM
Try masterbating for longer!

speakfire
October 16th, 2012, 07:10 PM
What I'm wondering is, are you just jacking for a few minutes until you get bored and stop? Or do you have some kind of orgasm sensation and then stop? If you don't and you just stop because you don't feel like doing it anymore then you definitely need to go longer. If you feel like your having an orgasm or feel something tingly and then go limp I think you just need to wait it out until your a little older. We're all different but personally I was getting cum when I was 12. Try going longer.Think about things that get you crazy horny.

Bumpin Bass
October 17th, 2012, 07:13 PM
Ok, I have a question for you, Darunia, How come it always takes me Less than 5 minutes to ejaculate? i never get a long session. 6 minutes was my longest one.
... Ever...

Everyone's different. Your sessions ARE rather short... The average is 20-30 minutes for male masturbation. Don't be so quick to call someone out like that, lol...

BelieberBoy95
October 17th, 2012, 08:09 PM
Once it took me 30 mins!!!!! nearly hurt my poor big dick

How big? Lol

And about Pyro well I think it's normal, you can start cumming at 17 or like me 13 :)

jhan3
October 18th, 2012, 12:37 AM
go to a doctor if ur concerned

brandon121
October 19th, 2012, 09:34 PM
it takes some time for your body to be able to

Avenged
October 23rd, 2012, 10:04 AM
Tips:
Try porn! Haha
Try longer, because it takes some people a while.
wait until you're turned on, then do it. dont force yourself into it.

klhohman16
January 15th, 2013, 06:39 PM
it will eventually come you might not be masturbating to orgasm

Volcom
January 15th, 2013, 07:35 PM
I would say enjoy having dry orgasms while it lasts, but I know how you feel and not being able to ejac. is kind of embarrassing..But anyway I was in the same situation a long time ago and it's just a matter of time. You're perfectly fine and you probably can cum but you have to be really worked up and jerk off for long periods of time to do it. So don't for a couple of days then when you do it, make it last for like 15+ minutes and see if that helps.

Troy35216
January 15th, 2013, 07:41 PM
if your having wet dreams (I hate you btw) but can't jerk off to orgasm there is a chance you aren't jerking off correctly. you can't get tips or how-to advice here but there internet is full of that kind of advice and instructions. do a search or go to jackinworld and try different techniques till you find the one that works for you.

BakeBake
January 16th, 2013, 07:31 PM
It depends on how old you are, you will soon be able to cum a lot and it is really a messy thing to clean up. But if you can have wet dreams, then you should be able to cum. Try and watch some porn or something, get horny, and then start doing it...

VirtualGuy012
January 18th, 2013, 01:26 AM
the longer it takes, the better! more fun that way

TheMatrix
January 18th, 2013, 03:20 AM
it will eventually come you might not be masturbating to orgasm

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