I'm Confused

[MrJoel]

Ok so I like this girl in my class she sits next to me,and her friend who claims she like me.So the girl I really like we are good friend we know each other like about a year.I like her alot!!!!But I think she likes me but im not sure,We hug and play most of the time and people thinks we are together.I really wanna find out if she like me because I really like her alot.An I don't wanna get the wrong impression about her because I don't want to to destroy our friendship.I don't know what to do.:confused:

So Today I huged a girl and she saw and she just came over to me and push me and she said "Your cheating me huhh" Im like NO! Then she gave me the cold shoulder I called her she didn't come and she rolled her eyes at me and after a while she started talking to me but like I was huging her and she pushed me away and she was like wat are you doing.Im like Blank!!Then she was say things like she didn't like me and Im too ugly for her (which btw I am ugly) she said she would be mad to go out with me but I didnt even ask her.So later on she started huging me so I huged her back I don't know what she thinks of me if she likes me or not or we are just good friends.But I think she is the right one for me we like almost the same things.Is she just messing with my emotions because she knows I like her!!!Now Im back to felling like a loner! D:


I merged your posts. -StoppingTime

[FreeFall]

Hm. You guys "had a thing". A "thing" now a days is that "couple" that's "together" but isn't, yet everyone around them assumes they're together so they're paired to each other in everyone else's mind. And in her mind you two had a thing, she was just waiting for you to work up the nerve to ask her out and make it official.

She sounds insecure and paranoid. You hugging another girl set off the "omg he's hugging her but he hugs me...that means he likes her, but I thought he liked me! Am I too ugly for him? Am I not good enough for him? Why's he hugging her? Isn't hugging me good enough? Damn, I really like him but he's got his arms around that girl, what for when he hugs me?" alarm in her head.

So she sank back into her shell and shoved her feelings into ammo to shoot at you. She was trying to get rid of her hurt and worry by making you feel bad. Then she felt bad about herself for that, felt like you were slipping away, and hugged you to show she's still there and likes your hugs I'm guessing.

So I don't know what to say to help. Maybe don't be so touchy-feely with other girls if you're serious about this girl. Wait awhile, maybe 3 days or 2, keep doing what you're doing with her like it was a normal day. Then ask her out. She confirmed she liked you. Maybe, hopefully if nothing changes, those feelings are still there.

[MrJoel]

Well I hope.But someone said "Its puppy love"

[rockNroll]

When she saw you hugging the other girl, either she's really clingy, or she was being sarcastic. I'd guess she was being sarcastic. It sounds like she likes you, I'd go for it if I was you. If she was serious about the hug thing though, I'd think twice. If she's that clingy when you two aren't even dating, it could just get worse.

[FreeFall]

Puppy love is typical as teens. It doesn't make the feelings any less real though.

So because you're both in puppy love, all is invalidated and you're going to give up?

[MrJoel]

I'm still not giving up

[Sleepy Raisin]

Hmmm.. Im not sure how old you two are.. But it seems to me that she does like you, and maybe when she saw you hugging another girl she got jealous... Obviously i dont know for sure but i think she thinks she made a mistake by saying "Youre cheating on me huhh" and now she's trying to cover it up by saying she would never go out wth you and what not.

She may have pushed you away before feeling uncomfortable. She may have been putting on an act and now that youre returning to a more normal relationship things are being forgotten..
Really its just drama that will pass with time.. But i would ask her out! She seems to like you!
Good luck!

[MrJoel]

When she saw you hugging the other girl, either she's really clingy, or she was being sarcastic. I'd guess she was being sarcastic. It sounds like she likes you, I'd go for it if I was you. If she was serious about the hug thing though, I'd think twice. If she's that clingy when you two aren't even dating, it could just get worse.
Yea I agree with you.I'm gonna go for it.

Hmmm.. Im not sure how old you two are.. But it seems to me that she does like you, and maybe when she saw you hugging another girl she got jealous... Obviously i dont know for sure but i think she thinks she made a mistake by saying "Youre cheating on me huhh" and now she's trying to cover it up by saying she would never go out wth you and what not.

She may have pushed you away before feeling uncomfortable. She may have been putting on an act and now that youre returning to a more normal relationship things are being forgotten..
Really its just drama that will pass with time.. But i would ask her out! She seems to like you!
Good luck!
Well we both 14.And I' gonna go for it.



Please do not post consecutively. ~StoppingTime

[FreeFall]

Good for you, good luck!

[MrJoel]

Yea.Thnx

[MrJoel]

Hmm.I didn't get to ask her out today because there was no school today!!I'm loosing confidence.Everyday I don't ask her I feel less confident

[MrJoel]

School has ended she probably reach home I still Haven't ask her but tomorrow is another day :D Still feeling confident!!!!!