View Full Version : My Older Brothers Raped My Sister (Advice?)
Pseudopyrif notropis
September 25th, 2012, 01:59 PM
My 17 year old brother and my 15 year old step brother who lives with us are very abusive. i found this site because my step brother was on here awhile ago i found it on my laptop but he got very pissed off like usual .i wasnt able to see much but i went to it on my own laptop and it looks like a place where i could spill my guts. ok so here is what happened two weeks ago was the parents were gone like usual and i was entertaining my 10 year old sister. i am used to the abuse from my step brother and older brother but this time they stormed in the room they just started attacking us until my step brother had me in a hold i guess and my older brother took My sister out of the room as she was screaming. after awhile of my step brother beating me up and i dont even know what was happening to my sister they left. now a week later worse things happened. again same kind of scenario except this time they didnt take her out of the room they just raped her orally and anally in front of me and i was powerless against it. that was a week ago no one knows because my step brother said he would slit my neck at night if i told anyone. i knew that my step brother always hated my sister because he is german and she is ukranian and he is just racist like that i guess and he verbally abuses her too i cant do anything what do i do. :(
SmexiLexie510
September 25th, 2012, 02:10 PM
I am terribly sorry to hear of the horrific things you've been going through, I cannot explain how much I feel for you. I want you to know that this is always a place you can come.
You need to try and find the strength to tell someone- your parents or a trusted adult, even going straight to the police. If you cannot or do not want to do it for yourself, you need to think of your sister. She needs to be out of any kind of position like that ever again, she is only 10 and by what you've said, I've gathered she's been raped twice, to your knowledge by people she supposedly put trust in. It must have been terrible for you as well.
Please try and find the courage to do it, I know it isn't easy because of the threats and the worry. But if the police are told then they will not get the opportunity to do anything to you, because they will be taken away, under close examination etc. I know this is very, very hard for you, I'm always here if you want to PM me.
Pseudopyrif notropis
September 25th, 2012, 02:15 PM
thank you for responding i guess ill try and tell someone my brothers are very unpredictable and my parents really dont care about us all to much
Noirtier
September 25th, 2012, 02:21 PM
That's a horrible thing to happen and to go through, I'm so sorry that it happened. You need to tell a trusted adult, though. I know it's hard and frightening with what you've seen and been threatened with, but what they did was not right. In fact, what they did was illegal, and they have hurt your sister even more than you realize--emotionally. Please, tell a trusted adult, even the police, and they will do everything they can to try and get your brothers away from you. That's sibling abuse to an extreme level, and it's not safe for any of you there. Your brothers sound very violent and they could, in fact, be a danger to other people too. I cannot stress enough how important it is that you let some authority figure know, preferably the police, for your own safety and that of your sister. Once they're out of there, do everything you can to be there for your sister and help her, because it's going to be hard for her. Make sure she knows you're there for her and you won't leave her, and that she can always count on you. You'll always have us here on VT to help you, hun, and we're here for you if you need to talk.
Silver Assassin
September 25th, 2012, 02:37 PM
^ what everyone else said mate
Pseudopyrif notropis
September 25th, 2012, 03:44 PM
my sister really doesnt want me to tell anyone because she doesnt want me to get hurt or her. i dont want to just tell people without her knowning because i dont see that ending well. i am going to try and convince her that it is good to tell somebody
PinkFloyd
September 25th, 2012, 04:33 PM
I am so sorry for all you've been through. Just remember that this site is always here to help. NOBODY DESERVES THIS. I don't know what country you live in but I'm guessing the US. You can do one of two things. One being going to the police unless you are too afraid. If you are, I don't blame you. two being protect you and others around you by your self. I am not a violent person unless i need to be. Now is a time I would be violent. It doesn't really matter what you get but a small gun would work nicely. If you live in the US, you can go take a gun safety class and get a licence for one. This would be for in case he tries this on you or he tries again on your little sister. And only kill when your life is immediate danger. The whole reason I got a gun was because someone very close to me experienced this terrible thing.
Please don't give me bad rep for this. This horrifying thread hit me dead in the heart. I just care so much.
PM me if you need ANYTHING.
:hug:
- best wishes, Rob
Pseudopyrif notropis
September 25th, 2012, 04:39 PM
thanks everyone i know what im going to do
HunterSteele
September 25th, 2012, 07:11 PM
Are you sure it's safe to post this here? If you found the site on his computer it's likely he's a member and will see this topic. We'll wait to hear his side of the story.
Pseudopyrif notropis
September 25th, 2012, 07:24 PM
Are you sure it's safe to post this here? If you found the site on his computer it's likely he's a member and will see this topic. We'll wait to hear his side of the story.
i thought hes banned, 2 days ago he was breaking things and just destroying a bunch of things and screaming and raging about how it was unfair he was banned for his opinion i dont think he is involved in other forums the only other thing on his computer is bizzare violent porn but i really dont know to be sure i wasnt really thinking about that at the time of posting this :(.
Matt_2012
September 26th, 2012, 03:06 AM
deadset thats beyond disgusting! cant even explain how sorry i feel for you.. you should take your sister with you and goto the police. that shits fucked up.
Amy15kitty
September 26th, 2012, 06:32 AM
Go to police now
SpasticatedPengiun
September 27th, 2012, 06:44 PM
Man all I can really say is go to the police and your parents at the same time so he has no chance of hurting you or your sister anymore, but It is quite sad how people can be so pathetic I mean me and my brother fight all the time (like a little insult here and there and argument and a bit of a fight) but one thing we do agree on is that we would protect our sister with our lives, we both love her very much and if I was your brother and I saw my step brother even lay his hand on my sister I would .... Well lets just say I got some dark thoughts about what I would do to him.
firewind336
October 1st, 2012, 02:47 PM
Okay please just do what I say your brother are fucking monsters, tell your parents make sure you have your sister with you there while your'e telling them, they will believe you okay and call the police tell them everything and your brothers will be prosecuted since you are the only witness you and your sister will have to testify against them just do it for your sisters sake, they will be imprisoned hopefully for life. Okay and just be there for your sister protect her. When your brothers are in prison they will be raped that is karma.
If you need anymore advice please don't hesitate to ask me.
Nellerin
October 1st, 2012, 03:56 PM
1. I can't even express how sorry I am to hear that you have been dealing with that type of abuse as well as I'm sorry for your sister.
2. Go to the police since that type of abuse is very serious and needs to stop.
Mirage
October 1st, 2012, 05:57 PM
This is not right. This is complete mistreatment. Tell the police. Seriously, bypass the whole parents thing. You need to contact the police IMMEDIATELY. She is probably emotionally scarred from the whole thing, I can't believe they would do this to a defenseless 10 year old...
Thepolice5291
October 24th, 2012, 07:25 AM
This is SICK and Disgusting, Go to the police immediately, They will help
And if you ever need to talk, feel free to swing me an email or message me here
Even if I quit, i will come back just to talk to you
mickydee
November 2nd, 2012, 10:41 PM
Totally wrong!!!!!! Get the police right away..... it has been like 2 months.... r u ok?
Stronk Serb
November 3rd, 2012, 02:59 PM
Ok, I might not be an expert in this, but you should take your sister to the police, file a report and have these bastards locked away, this is wrong, I think you should do it like this:
You: Hey sis (whatever you call her) if we go to the police, they will not be able to harm anybody, not you, not me, not some other people when they grow. Keep her in your sight, carry a knife if you need to defend yourself from your brothers, and tell the cops.
Professional Russian
November 4th, 2012, 08:13 PM
If your parents don't care go to the police. They will do something about it. That's about all I can say. hope I helped
Texas warrior
November 14th, 2012, 10:13 PM
Call the police and tell them that they threatened you.
its.me.akshay
November 16th, 2012, 08:34 AM
My 17 year old brother and my 15 year old step brother who lives with us are very abusive. i found this site because my step brother was on here awhile ago i found it on my laptop but he got very pissed off like usual .i wasnt able to see much but i went to it on my own laptop and it looks like a place where i could spill my guts. ok so here is what happened two weeks ago was the parents were gone like usual and i was entertaining my 10 year old sister. i am used to the abuse from my step brother and older brother but this time they stormed in the room they just started attacking us until my step brother had me in a hold i guess and my older brother took My sister out of the room as she was screaming. after awhile of my step brother beating me up and i dont even know what was happening to my sister they left. now a week later worse things happened. again same kind of scenario except this time they didnt take her out of the room they just raped her orally and anally in front of me and i was powerless against it. that was a week ago no one knows because my step brother said he would slit my neck at night if i told anyone. i knew that my step brother always hated my sister because he is german and she is ukranian and he is just racist like that i guess and he verbally abuses her too i cant do anything what do i do. :(
k.... here's the scene... dont take them as brothers k?? take them as some strangers.... as sumone who is verbally and physically abusing ure family member.... what would you do.... ull try to protect yourself and your cousin.... at this point its not far that they would assault you too.... and to hear about that neck slitting thing is rely bad!! if id been in ur lace id have a taser or a pepper spray with me everytime!! and if u cant search for them next time when something like this happens be ready to attack them!! target their weakness.... most guys who are'nt athletes are really weak at their knees.... target your assault there....!! if hes really steady he's a guy and you can everytime target his dick.... :p
all the best!!
for more help reply here!!!:cool:
vernon
November 23rd, 2012, 08:07 AM
that sounds terible : ( i hope you tell some one fast.
danika13
January 10th, 2013, 02:39 PM
Get a couple ball bats and when they are sleeping beat the living tar out of them and then call the police and tell them what they are doing to you.
unusedaccount
January 15th, 2013, 04:30 PM
My 17 year old brother and my 15 year old step brother who lives with us are very abusive. i found this site because my step brother was on here awhile ago i found it on my laptop but he got very pissed off like usual .i wasnt able to see much but i went to it on my own laptop and it looks like a place where i could spill my guts. ok so here is what happened two weeks ago was the parents were gone like usual and i was entertaining my 10 year old sister. i am used to the abuse from my step brother and older brother but this time they stormed in the room they just started attacking us until my step brother had me in a hold i guess and my older brother took My sister out of the room as she was screaming. after awhile of my step brother beating me up and i dont even know what was happening to my sister they left. now a week later worse things happened. again same kind of scenario except this time they didnt take her out of the room they just raped her orally and anally in front of me and i was powerless against it. that was a week ago no one knows because my step brother said he would slit my neck at night if i told anyone. i knew that my step brother always hated my sister because he is german and she is ukranian and he is just racist like that i guess and he verbally abuses her too i cant do anything what do i do. :(
Get off your laptop, put some items in a bag, and go to the nearest police station, if you feel you can't then call 911 and request that an officer come and escort you to the nearest station. Tell them what happened, and they'll protect you, and investigate it. By not telling anyone, your hurting your sister as well as yourself.
janisj182
January 23rd, 2013, 03:33 PM
you should tell a counselor at school, by law every school has to have one and if they get a report of any abuse they will report it, your bros will not even get to come home the next night because the police will have to take care of them. Then your sister will get the help she needs, and not to mention that they will get the trouble and consequences that they deserve, but if you dont want to do it for anything, do it for your sister, tat is really traumatizing
kingme99
January 23rd, 2013, 04:12 PM
Anyone know if he is okay? And his 10 year old sister is safe?
Mirage
January 23rd, 2013, 07:34 PM
Get a couple ball bats and when they are sleeping beat the living tar out of them and then call the police and tell them what they are doing to you.
Please don't bump old threads.
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