Am I gay?

[Thisguy64]

I don't know if I'm gay if you can could some one help me.

Because since last year I start to like boys than girls bc last years I had a girl friend but I didn't have feelings about her this , this high schooler(he was my brother best friend) and he was straight.and he's older than me he's in 10th grade so I start to like him a lot bc he had hairy legs and and hairy armpit and that made go all yummy and he came up to me and started To talk to me and stuff I was like :) yea and me and him became BestFriend idk if this is a phase or if it just I'm becoming or am gay help please thank you and I'm in 8th grade and I'm 14 he's 16

[StoppingTime]

I split your thread from the old one since you are asking your own question.

[MartyG]

Hi :)

Kinda hard to read your post; maybe you could edit the grammar a bit?

It certainly sounds like you might be gay; give it another year; if you still have strong feelings for guys when you're 15....then the odds of it being a phase are slimming.

Who/what are you thinking about when you masturbate? That might give you a clue.....but that also can change as puberty progresses.

What's up? Are you worried or is it just a question?

[TigerBoy]

I don't know if I'm gay if you can could some one help me.

Because since last year I start to like boys than girls bc last years I had a girl friend but I didn't have feelings about her this , this high schooler(he was my brother best friend) and he was straight.and he's older than me he's in 10th grade so I start to like him a lot bc he had hairy legs and and hairy armpit and that made go all yummy and he came up to me and started To talk to me and stuff I was like :) yea and me and him became BestFriend idk if this is a phase or if it just I'm becoming or am gay help please thank you and I'm in 8th grade and I'm 14 he's 16



Well tbh with the whole thing where a cute guy makes you feel yummy, it does sound like you have same sex attraction. Its not as simple as that one thing making you gay though : appreciating good looks, admiring or being envious of a nice looking guy don't necessarily mean he turns you on sexually (unless that is covered by 'yummy' ? )

I'd just see where that goes for now, really the label doesn't matter.

[ackmedsgirl666]

perhaps your just b-curious
sexuality is something you are born with.... so unless you weren't gay before you wouldnt be now...like i said maybe bi. i remember when i first had my first same sex crush.. i didnt even know i liked women.. but everything changes :)