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Jtyler
September 24th, 2012, 09:46 PM
Recently I think my friend is becoming gay because he us always touching my dick and every where else on my body and he talks about that stuff and other gay things! I don't know if he is Turing gay or he is just going through a phase
Any advice to help?
PinkFloyd
September 24th, 2012, 09:48 PM
He may be but just remember to accept him for who he is. If you don't like him touching your dick I would say something. This could also be a phase. (I'm leaning on the turning gay thing.) But that's just me.
- Rob
TotalDbag
September 24th, 2012, 09:50 PM
I'm going to have to agree with Rob
Tinker
September 24th, 2012, 10:21 PM
Same here
RunnerForLife
September 24th, 2012, 10:23 PM
He's probably gay. If its making you uncomfortable just say something to him about it
iwannago
September 24th, 2012, 10:28 PM
thats so awkward... LOLL just tell him , make him feel a little uncomfortable , a little awkard and im sure it will make him stop aha
Cognizant
September 24th, 2012, 10:36 PM
Well, without more detail, we can't be sure. What kind of things does he say to you that make you think he's gay?
dontfiguremeout
September 24th, 2012, 11:22 PM
Hmm, i would talk to him! I mean he's kinda avoiding your privacy area, so just ask him what's up? Why is he doing this stuff? And if he is, then don't be a jerk like most guys do, actually help him out, since this would be when he needs the most help he can get!
Abyssal Echo
September 24th, 2012, 11:39 PM
need more input...information your friends age... do you or don't you like what hes doing ??? you never said
what kinda stuff is he talkin about ??? is he Gay ? BI ? Curious ??? I dunno he prob. dunno either.
if you don't like what hes doing or saying tell him
frankrocky
September 25th, 2012, 08:41 AM
It is hard to know. If you are uncomfortable about his actions then you need to talk to him about it. For sure you should accept him for who he is.
Collin97
September 25th, 2012, 09:29 AM
He's probably gay and of course theres nothing wrong with that but if you dont like the touching thing you should say something about it
josh_9
September 25th, 2012, 05:22 PM
Well if he is the same age as you, 13, he might just be experimenting and going through a phase and trying to decide if he wants to be or not.
BoyTeen1997
September 25th, 2012, 05:50 PM
It may not be him going gay, he may just be curious. But even it he has realized that he is homosexual, a true friend would not care.
Danny_boi 16
September 25th, 2012, 10:30 PM
1. he's either playing around like the guys at my school who aren't gay.
2. He may be gay or somewhere in that spectrum.
3. If he is making you feel uncomfortable talk to him
4. He may also just want attention and want to you to accept him for who he is
uberwhal3
September 25th, 2012, 10:45 PM
Probably gay. But if he's 13, like you, he could just be curious about other guys Ds. Who knows.
Lost in the Echo
September 25th, 2012, 10:54 PM
I think it's just a phase. I assume he is around the same age as you, so since he is going through puberty he is most likely just curious. If you don't like him touching your dick then do what the people above me have said, simply tell him to stop.
Pyro99
September 26th, 2012, 11:09 AM
It could easily be both, but if you're uncomfortable with it, tell him.
SamB
September 26th, 2012, 12:30 PM
To start with people don't just "turn gay". Sexuality is something that is their for birth, yes he might just be realising that he is gay, or he is just going through a phase where he wants to experiment, but if you are uncomfortable with him touching you, then you need to tell him to stop it.
Thanatos
September 26th, 2012, 01:06 PM
The main issue with this is to tell him to lay off of the touching if you are uncomfortable. The rest can be figured out with time or a long talk, and all that I'd ask of you is to stay supportive of your friend regardless of if its a realization or experimentation.
StoppingTime
September 26th, 2012, 08:11 PM
:arrow: Family & Friends. You will probably find more friend-related advice here.
FreeFall
September 26th, 2012, 08:46 PM
Doesn't matter what his sexual orientation is.
If you don't like him touching you, and it sounds like him just touching your penis is freaking you out, make him stop.
Apollo.
September 27th, 2012, 05:01 PM
It could be nothing, me and one of my best friends I'm quite sure he's straight we always joke about with stuff like that, like touching each other and saying kind of suggestive things to each other, I actually really like him even though I say I'm straight but he's exactly the same to me but as far as I know he's straight. That's just one example though your situation could be different
chezhans
May 4th, 2013, 06:48 AM
To be completely honest...I have a hunch he is. But if you don't feel comfortable then it's your duty to say something about it!
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May 4th, 2013, 03:43 PM
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