Asking a girl out as soon as I can... Tips?

[Arther443]

Tomorrow if I can, maybe later, I'm going to ask this girl out. Does anyone have any tips? By the way, this is the first time I've ever asked anyone out and I REFUSE to do it in any other way than just asking. She rarely gets away from her friends, too.
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[Clevdawg]

I feel ya! We all know that feeling, heck I'm feeling that nervous feeling that you get and leaves you confused. You gotta be confident if anything! An make it casual, don't be too dramatic. Ask if she wants to see a movie or something. Depending on the kind of person, she may seem nervous or close to it but if she likes you, you'll be fine. if u can, it may b better to ask her when seperated from her friends as(and I know) they influence her decision. If you have to call her tomorrow evining when she has time. Good luck pal, tell us how it goes and if she does say no don't get upset, doesn't mean she won't someday change her mind

[NotYourSombrero]

Just ask her to do something simple but try to avoid asking her in front of her friends as to remove the social awkwardness of it for her and you. If she does reject you just move on. Good luck and tell us how it goes.

[Arther443]

what should I say?

[Sir Suomi]

Depends on the girl, but if you can get her away from her friends, try asking her to the movies or something. But make sure you two know each other real well. If she seems to like you alot before you ask her out, she should say yes, unless the worst case scenario happpens, and you get what you call "friend zoned". Trust me, it's happened to me multiple times =/

[Arther443]

I was just thinking of saying "Hey, do you have a boyfriend right now? (if no) Would you like to be my boyfriend?"

[Nathan Numberless]

That's too bland. Hey, do you happen to have a boyfriend? If you do, my heart is gonna shatter into a billion peices!

[Sir Suomi]

Well thats over doing it, you think? =)
Well if you just want to ask her out, just be yourself. If she's meant for you, she'll say yes in a heartbeat. And if she's not, that's just what the good Lord meant to happen =)

[Clevdawg]

I was just thinking of saying "Hey, do you have a boyfriend right now? (if no) Would you like to be my boyfriend?"

The key is that your only asking her out on a date right now. Becoming her bf isn't just a question. Take her on a few dates first, make sure you two are truly meant for each other. Once you got to know her better or your sure both of you would be ready for a relationship then just say like, " hey I know we have know each other for quite some time now blah blah,.. I have deep feelings for you blah blah... I would truly love to be more than just a friend." you gotta butter her up but not before you go on a date or two. Ok?

[Arther443]

But my friend also likes her and will VERY soon (if he hasn't already) so if I take too long, it is likely that I will lose her.

[Sir Suomi]

Oh, then ask her out! There's no time to lose! Now stop getting on the forums and start getting your girl! :)

[Arther443]

Ugh. Fuckin hella sick now D:<<<