Thigg
September 24th, 2012, 03:53 PM
Hey!
I have known this friend like 3+ years and in the beginning I didnt see her more than a friend and now I do. We are both 16 years old. The problem is, she doesnt feel the same way right now. I could say that I'm in love and this isnt anything like crush and my feelings are much deeper. But yea, she rejected me when i told what i feel. (she said many reasons, but she said she could date with me if i would be better looking she wouldnt even think about it, because everything else isperfect) Anything diddn't change and we still speak all the time to each other (msn/txt) because we live in different citys (not so long way to meet her but still).
That day I told her we had after it argue and I said something that we shouldnt speak to each other ever again and she like "begged" and said i couldnt ruin this our friendship that i dont leave him and she told me im the only she can trust anymore (she doestn have very much friends and many of her friends has already left she in the past). She said that im the most important person to her now..
But I cant stand this anymore, Im thinking that I should leave her. At least then, if she finds a boyfriend..I just couldnt watch them. I have thought this long and really dont know what to do anymore. Shes the most importamt person to me aswell but yes, I would leave her if i had to. I'm very sad right now and I have also cried because of him more than ever or because of anything.. I also start almost crying when I think about leaving her but also when thinking she with some another..:(
So could you give some advices or something I could do? She still wants to see me. (just two of us) and last sunday when I met her, she didnt do anything like when i sat next to her and i pressed myself to her..and touched her hand and touched her jacket all the time when sitting.. And stared at her..she didnt looked like uncomfortable or didnt move away. We havent had much physical contact before..so
I could also say that we dont see each other very often because that distance so we usually just speak in net/phone so could that help if we see each other more often? Any other stories you ciuld share with me? I would do like everything for her and for that I could get her! Thank you very much!
I have known this friend like 3+ years and in the beginning I didnt see her more than a friend and now I do. We are both 16 years old. The problem is, she doesnt feel the same way right now. I could say that I'm in love and this isnt anything like crush and my feelings are much deeper. But yea, she rejected me when i told what i feel. (she said many reasons, but she said she could date with me if i would be better looking she wouldnt even think about it, because everything else isperfect) Anything diddn't change and we still speak all the time to each other (msn/txt) because we live in different citys (not so long way to meet her but still).
That day I told her we had after it argue and I said something that we shouldnt speak to each other ever again and she like "begged" and said i couldnt ruin this our friendship that i dont leave him and she told me im the only she can trust anymore (she doestn have very much friends and many of her friends has already left she in the past). She said that im the most important person to her now..
But I cant stand this anymore, Im thinking that I should leave her. At least then, if she finds a boyfriend..I just couldnt watch them. I have thought this long and really dont know what to do anymore. Shes the most importamt person to me aswell but yes, I would leave her if i had to. I'm very sad right now and I have also cried because of him more than ever or because of anything.. I also start almost crying when I think about leaving her but also when thinking she with some another..:(
So could you give some advices or something I could do? She still wants to see me. (just two of us) and last sunday when I met her, she didnt do anything like when i sat next to her and i pressed myself to her..and touched her hand and touched her jacket all the time when sitting.. And stared at her..she didnt looked like uncomfortable or didnt move away. We havent had much physical contact before..so
I could also say that we dont see each other very often because that distance so we usually just speak in net/phone so could that help if we see each other more often? Any other stories you ciuld share with me? I would do like everything for her and for that I could get her! Thank you very much!