Called gay

[Terrell613091]

I get called gay and I'm not I get called gay cause I Don't stare at women's ass my voice is not deep I walk funny(my spine something's wrong with it)it's like my butt poke out when I walk with a curve in my back I used to be called gay Alto it pisses me off I'm not a fighter person my dad called me a sissy when I was 8 I have no muscles I'm skinny shoe size 4in a half and 5 I just wanna know why people just call me gay not trying to be racist but it's not racist sense I'm black anyway but black guys call me gay never other races but black why is this?

[Stryker125]

Been there. Don't worry about it dude, I used to get called gay a lot too, but you can't let it bother you. Sometimes guys grow up with a bit of a skewed view of what a man is supposed to be. If it's anything different than what they grew up with, or were taught, it's weird, gay, etc. And that goes for any race, not only black people.

You just gotta remember that just because someone says something about you, that doesn't make it true.

[DerBear]

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[Stronger]

I had that same exact problem, expect I'm white, so it happens to every race. Your dad calling you a sissy? That doesn't seem right, was it a constant or was it a one time thing? You still young, you have quite a bit of time to grow muscle and shoe sizes. :P Don't let anyone get to you, if you do, you're only letting them win, simply ignore them and let them look like assholes. Stay strong, and before you know it, you will be growing, voice deeping, etc.

[West Coast Sheriff]

Been there. Don't worry about it dude, I used to get called gay a lot too, but you can't let it bother you. Sometimes guys grow up with a bit of a skewed view of what a man is supposed to be. If it's anything different than what they grew up with, or were taught, it's weird, gay, etc. And that goes for any race, not only black people.

You just gotta remember that just because someone says something about you, that doesn't make it true.

My best advice is too ignore it. When your an adult your teen years won't be as
important

[Pseudopyrif notropis]

wow everybody gets called gay how can you even let that get to you, especially if you know its not true.

[Stronger]

wow everybody gets called gay how can you even let that get to you, especially if you know its not true.

Thats not true at all and it hurts being called it regardless, have you been called gay?

[Stephan]

The term gay nowadays is more like a slightly more offensive euphemism to replace words like oh your clumsy, stupid, etc..all those words.

As for your physique..I mean your only 13, so I bet you'll grow "a lot" more muscle and height, weight, etc once you experience puberty, and if you are already in puberty, then perhaps you are a late bloomer. I mean..everyone's different, that just it works.

[Pseudopyrif notropis]

Thats not true at all and it hurts being called it regardless, have you been called gay?

yeah i have been called gay when i was in 7th grade i was called faggot or gay at least 4 times a day so what i said was true i didnt let anything get to me because i know im the best but still

[StoneColdNicky]

I guess its universal, but I guess people grow out of it. Of course there will always be some people who are just jerks.

[Matt_2012]

Just say ' yeah alright buddy ' then walk away... after awhile theyll get bored of it, they only dish it when you react. dw bout it.

[Danny_boi 16]

everyone is called gay in this new generation. if your dad calls u a sissy, talk to him cuz that doesn't seem right. and for your classmate ignore them. People don't call me gay, but people have asked me about my sexuality since the 6th grade, but in a nice way.

the word "gay" know has an offensive meaning, and if that bothers you ignore them.

[Mortal Coil]

You're only thirteen, so like other people said you'll grow. Just because other kids are freaks of nature who are already shaving doesn't mean that you're supposed to be like that. They probably just had too much milk with fake hormones in it ;)
As for being called gay, there really isn't much you can do about it. I mean, laughing it off is probably your best bet because "ignoring it" doesn't work, and if you show a negative reaction (getting angry, etc) they'll just do it more.

I'm sorry you're in this situation.