Help Me Decide

[Confs3d98]

Till about a year ago I was interested in girls. I moved to high xshool and had a sleep over with my new best friend. What started as harmless searching for people to party with on Omegle, soon turned into a stiptease from one girl. She said she would get fully nude if we did. So my friend convinced me into it. Well we got what we wanted. So we looked for other chicks like this. We soon found on and she insisted we wank for her. My friend then admitted that he used to be Bi so he would do it. I was unsure but later on agreed. Later on another girl insisted we jack each other off, That was where I drew the line. The night soon ended and I went home the next day. But science that incedent I get turned on by men now aswell.

Please Help I'm really confused. :confused:

[May_Star]

You could prolly be just remembering the incident. Maybe you need more time to figure it out....

[The Mockingjay]

First of all, you definitely shouldn't be getting naked on Omegle or any sites like that, much too risky; what if the girl took screenshots and posted them online? You never know what might happen, so don't do it in future.

The whole thing with you liking boys is a tricky one. Have you considered that you might only have realised that you find boys attractive because of what happened with your friend? Like, you never fully noticed it before or you've been in denial or something? Don't worry about being bi, there's nothing "wrong" with it, only with the people who discriminate.

Most importantly, don't hurry to label yourself. You sound quite young and there's still plenty of time to decide for yourself what you are, don't feel under pressure to come out or anything until you are completely certain! :)

[TigerBoy]

Sounds to me like you just learned something new about yourself that night - its going to take a little while to process it I guess, but don't drive yourself crazy about labelling yourself. Whatever gets you horny don't stress it, just have fun and enjoy it.

[wild1]

Don't worry It's probably just some hormone thing besides its just happened and it doesnt mean anything.

[Stronger]

I agree with the above, give it sometime and don't focus on a label, it only leads to stress and remember if you feel uncomfortable do something stupid, just say no, who knows what those girls could have been doing on the other side of the screen.

[dontfiguremeout]

I would wait to label yourself! Just go on with your life, try new things, and then after puberty, and you feel something different or whatever, then label yourself.

[Confs3d98]

Thankyou to everyone for your support with my problem. As most of you suggested it was probably more hormones than we could handle. I will wait a while before labling myself. I fell a lot better after getting this off my chest.

[rachin2u42]

sounds like you need to think about who turns you on more