How would you deal with it.

[SmileyFace13]

So for a while now I have only told one friend that Im gay but I don't know how I'm gonna tell my family....Help please

[Koffing]

First it's important to know what they thing about gays etc... Are they accepting or not? If you know they are accepting things will be easier. If they don't, then I should keep it to yourself for a while.

I found a really good site that helps you how to tell them: http://www.wikihow.com/Tell-Your-Family-That-You-Are-Gay

Hope I helped and good luck with telling them ;)

[Gandalf]

It depends if your ready to accept the consequences of being out but it may be useful for you to people you trust first (with your parents it's often easier to speak to one parent first) however you choose to do it; just be honest and give people time to take it in.


Hope I've helped. :)

[TigerBoy]

Take a look at the coming out tips thread for some ideas.

Its a tough one but the sooner you do it the easier it will be when you want to date - doing it at your age is awesome, but the younger you are the more chance you'll get of the "its probably just a phase, you're too young to know" thing. If that's the case just tell them "whatever, but this is what I am and how I feel right now."