expressing your feelings: the right time

[Clevdawg]

So this is kinda related to my other thread but it desrves a seperate one. I've met a great girl a few weeks back nd have been texting ever since. I just simply enjoy her. She's great.Friday, I asked her to my schools homecoming in 2 weeks and she said yes. (Its probably good to note she just went to a different homecoming with a different guy.) I have been texting her all the time all day and I can't stop thinking about her. Today I maned up and asked her out so sometime this week her, me and some friends are going to see a movie. Still with me?

The thing is I m getting that funny feeling that you get when you think love is close. I know she likes me but I don't know if its as much as I like her. I want to tell her how high iregard her but I don't know if or when I should do that? Should I do it at the movies? At the dance? Or should I spend more time but I fear I might lose her if I wait too long...

[xXJust Jump ItXx]

Well home coming is in 2 weeks... Little long to wait. :/ If it was this weekend Id say do it! But movies is... this week haha. Okay, well if you get there early or sometime during, just talk to her and tell her you wanna tell her something, tell her how you feel and hope all is well!

[Clevdawg]

Well home coming is in 2 weeks... Little long to wait. :/ If it was this weekend Id say do it! But movies is... this week haha. Okay, well if you get there early or sometime during, just talk to her and tell her you wanna tell her something, tell her how you feel and hope all is well!

I really want to, so bad but its not like we are dating, it would be our first time. I just don't want to be too...well I don't know really how to say it.

[jakob137]

I'm glad you found a girl you like but never move to quickly by telling her you are falling for her. If you do, you run the risk of scaring her off. Be patient!! After the movies and homecoming, see where things stand after that. If you fall in love sometime in there but are still unsure what her thoughts are let me know and tell me what her actions are so I can help you :)

[DerBear]

To be honest, your relationship is very new and from the sounds of it you are not even official boyfriend and girlfriend (forgive me if I am wrong), I would wait until after homecoming and see how that goes, you don't want to rush into things and maybe at homecoming some of the sparks might fly and you two will get a better understanding of how you feel for each other, you both have only known each other for a month or so now so there is no need to take things real fast.

Two weeks is hardly a longtime so I would wait, she did go to her dance with a different guy but think about it she has only known you for over a month, maybe she knew this guy for a longtime. You don't want to come on too strong so I would wait until homecoming or maybe a day after homecoming. It would be much better and it would give you both time to find your ground and figure out how you both feel about each other.

[Clevdawg]

To be honest, your relationship is very new and from the sounds of it you are not even official boyfriend and girlfriend (forgive me if I am wrong), I would wait until after homecoming and see how that goes, you don't want to rush into things and maybe at homecoming some of the sparks might fly and you two will get a better understanding of how you feel for each other, you both have only known each other for a month or so now so there is no need to take things real fast.

Two weeks is hardly a longtime so I would wait, she did go to her dance with a different guy but think about it she has only known you for over a month, maybe she knew this guy for a longtime. You don't want to come on too strong so I would wait until homecoming or maybe a day after homecoming. It would be much better and it would give you both time to find your ground and figure out how you both feel about each other.

No we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend, although one day I hope.:wub:And your points of how we have not known each other long is why i wanted to make this. I just think shes amazing, but as you said i am still figuring out her. We seem so compatible. I was planning to wait until homecoming in the first place unless something comes up. It seems so dumb trying to hide my feelings because its i think she may already have a clue...