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AnyaSky
September 23rd, 2012, 03:36 PM
So, im in middle school and recently developed my first crush. But, my crush is on a boy that ive known for along time, not like my other friends who like people that came from other schools. So i sit with a group of the same people every day at lunch. So my crush, lets call him "Dylan", sits across from me in a booth every day. When i bring my lunch, he always shares my lemonade with me, but he doesnt do that with anyone else, so im like... "ummmmm" in my head. He says Im mean sometimes but always with a smile. The other day he asked for my locker number , but i havent had any notes or anything from him. So I want your guys' iiput on my situation and what you think i should do. I can answer any questions if need be. I want girl and boy opinions too please! :what:

Drew5
September 23rd, 2012, 05:31 PM
not sure there is anything to do other than keep spending time with him as you are or suggest you do something after school or weekend if you don't want to wait for him to ask you something

StoppingTime
September 23rd, 2012, 05:37 PM
You're in middle school; therefore you're bound for these "crushes." Most of the time they don't turn out to be an actual relationship, but hey, you never know I guess.
Just talk to him. I personally don't think you need to take this much farther than just being good friends, because of all the unnecessary drama a middle school can cause.
Be confident, and trusting in him, even if it doesn't turn out to be an actual relationship, it can never hurt to have really good friends without being in a relationship.

Also, I'll move this to the Relationships forum because it's more relevant there than the puberty one.

Stronger
September 23rd, 2012, 06:40 PM
Steven made a lot of good points, this is your first crush, and I'm sure you will have many more. If you want it to go further you should ask yourself, is it possibley worth losing a friendship over, should things go wrong? Maybe you should wait, and keep looking, other than what you said its hard to really say if he actually likes you or not.