Who was Right?

[NoWhereMan]

Hey Dudes and Dudetts,
Love me yet? Cause' I'm not leaving any time soon :P so anywho me and a group of friends are at lunch and they're fighting for which what side I sit on and I was going to go sit with my girlfriend. Then a girl on the other side (Who likes me) and she says and I quote "Don't sit with INSERT NAME HERE she's a slut!" which I replied to with "Fuck you!" which is so far from my normal happy melow self. And I appologized the next day because I felt bad about it. So my question to you was who was right, who was less wrong than the other I guess? I thank you all in advance for your replies.

Love,
NoWhereMan

[dontfiguremeout]

Umm first off, you both are equally guilty in this situation! The girl who likes you is guilty because she said don't sit with your girlfriend, plus she called her a slut! I mean that is just plain rude and mean! But then you are equally guilty by cussing her out too! If you didn't do that, then she would be the complete guilty person here!

[DerBear]

This seems more like a family and friends question. PM me if I am wrong

Relationships and Dating :arrow: Family and Friends.

Put it this way, you were both in the wrong. Your first friend was wrong by dictating to you who you should sit with and they were wrong for calling your someone a slut as he has no right to judge.

You were wrong because you replied in a vulgar manner and over reacting to this situation and telling someone to shut the fuck up isn't a good idea.

Overall you apologized the next day and that was a good thing you showed maturity. Honestly don't let something small like this get to you.

[FreeFall]

Why're you apologizing for sticking up for your girlfriend?

I see no wrong here done by you. Hell if you're guilty then me and my boyfriend belong in jaill. He flipped off the last girl that called me a skank. I cursed out a guy that called him a bastard. Both whom hated that we're dating due to liking us. We don't play when someone degrades our significant other.
How dare someone try to tell you not to sit with your girlfriend, and then to call her a slut? Girl who likes you needs to learn she can't try to weasel her way to a guy by calling the one he's dating a slut, whore, skank, etc.

[Pseudopyrif notropis]

wow you apologized for standing up for your girlfriend

[Nathan Numberless]

Well I would've made her drown in tears right there but I guess everybody's different. You should not have apolagized. I don't even know how to spell that A word. She likes you, and is completely jealous over you dating someone else, and is completely insensitive to call your girlfriend a slut. I would find a greater reason to give her a bloody nose then to apolijize but hey, whatever, don't let it get to you, okay? :)

[Cachorra]

Very noble of you to apologize, but hey....girl had it coming. I think its a secret agreement amoungst humans. Once one curses expect to get an equally vulgar reply. Sure thats not right and fighting fire with fire is ideally wrong, but thats just human morality trying to come into play. Dont beat up about it. She said slut, you said fuck. By the end of the month you should have both moved on and forgotten about it. I'd be nice and say your both wrong, but truly only she is. Sometimes humans strive to be too perfect and be the "bigger person" and while thats commendable and is good to keep the peace- its totally fine if you flip out and curse back- afterall your only human and she should have expected you to retaliate in some form, as long as you didnt go overboard and whack the crack outta her with the chair/bench.