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LIAM.M
September 21st, 2012, 04:55 PM
Basically there's this girl I really like but I've only spoke to her about once or twice, on this anonymous site thing I told her that I found her naturally beautiful but she wanted to know who it was and I was going to tell her but kind of just broke down with nerves and now can't really pick up the same courage to tell her who I am. Any advice?
dontfiguremeout
September 21st, 2012, 05:36 PM
Well then go tell her! You aren't going nowhere if you don't tell her who you are! Just be extremely careful when it's dating websites!
Zarakly
September 21st, 2012, 05:42 PM
SO I'm betting you found her tumblr. And you want to tell her how much you like her? I say, if she is doing the thing where she keeps posting how she wants a boyfriend and says stuff like I want this and I want to wake up to a good morning text or something. I suggest you tell her. Don't try and stay anonymous. That ends really badly. I stayed anonymous for like 5 weeks and she doesn't even talk to me anymore.
Tl;dr-Tell her who you are before its to late.
Stryker125
September 21st, 2012, 05:47 PM
Just gotta put yourself out there and tell her man, that's all there is too it. I'm pretty shy as well, so I understand the whole nerves thing. But you just gotta do it.
Blessthefall
September 21st, 2012, 06:30 PM
Get out in the open and make yourself known. No guts, no glory.
FullyAlive
September 21st, 2012, 06:34 PM
You have three options, in my opinion.
1) subtlety, you compliment her in the exact same way in person as a hint and see what she says.
2) tell her outright that it was you and you like her
3) don't tell her at all (be prepared to see get end up with someone else)
Personally I prefer two but its up to you
The Flash
September 21st, 2012, 07:25 PM
wait, do you know her in real life? and its the "ask me anything" kind of thing, and u just chose to be anonymous?
talk to her more, and once ur comfortable tell her u like her.
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