My best m8 loves him.

[Lifesreject]

Firstly, Ok if this seems stupid and pointless just gnore it and don't reply.

Ok, here goes...
....a few days ago my best friend told me that she liked my boyfriend as more than friends. oh n a better point that she also has a close boyfriend whom she has been sleeping with. Well it turns out she told him this four weeks ago.
3 of my other friends also found out then but no1 thought to tell me. Now i have been watchin my boyfriend today and i have seen the way he looks at her. and its not just that he is constantly poking her (its his fetish). i no its probably me been paroniod but i could really do with some advice on how to tackle this.

[Maverick]

I'd say you should talk to your boyfriend casually about what you heard and just see his reaction. If he still likes you he'll make well sure you know that. If you have doubts about a relationship it's best to be honest and say something about it before the paranoia you have starts to damage the relationship because it wasn't addressed.

[Lifesreject]

This isnt what i heard it is what she told me. Plus i havent got a clue to casually talk to him about something like this.

[Maverick]

Well by casually I mean like be calm about it. Don't sound accusatory or upset. That would only make things worst.

[byee]

Your issue here isn't with your boyfriend, it's with your girlfriend. She's not very loyal (to you or her current boyfriend), and frankly, I think you need to 'throw her under the bus' (which is Yank-speak for 'dump her'). No real friend ever contemplates stealing their friends boyfriend. It's selfish and self centered. And frankly inexcusable.

There's no issue with your b/f, he's done nothing wrong, and there's nothing wrong with someone else liking him. Until he does something that indicates he's taken your 'friends' bait, I'd leave it alone.

Tell her to take a hike, however.