Naked room mate

[irhmrh]

Ok this kinda bothers me im in a dorm with another guy and he sleeps and walkes around naked.

it kinda bothers me.

yes im bi but still it does

why do people do this?

[The Resurrected One]

Some people like to walk around naked because they feel more comfortable that way, I guess.

EDIT: Oh, and well, if it bothers you, maybe you can tell him.

[irhmrh]

Well i did talk to him but i think he took it as a "hit on him" what i said was

"do you always walk around naked" and i was laying in my bed covered up

he responce was "if your lucky you will find out"

[The Resurrected One]

Well, I guess that if it does make you feel bothered, then tell him that it makes you feel bothered.

[byee]

You're not asking why he does it here,( Answer: Because it feels good for him), you're asking for a way to help him stop. (Note: Forget about his sleeping habits, they don't involve you, focus on his ambulatory style).

The answer to THAT is simple. Be direct, don't be cryptic and ask a question that you hope he'll figure out why you're asking. Something like, "Listen, I need you to stop walking around naked when I'm here". Simple, direct, to the point. Has nothing to do with your sexuality, just your feelings. And roommates, living with eachother, need to do that.

[Joe3140]

just keep your distance and dont accidently bump into anything :lol:

[BornActor]

To me if it truly bothers u and he isnt like ur friend or best friend or anything.
Then u can just request to change roommate. Unless its really crowded and the college is still waiting for people to eventually drop out.

[Sapphire]

Just tell him that you don't feel comfortable with him walking around completely starkers when you are there. You shouldnt be made to feel uncomfortable in your own living quarters.

[Cristian0007]

ya just tell him your not comfortable with it

[lxl]

Just be staightforward... you dont have to feel uncomfortable for his comfort of his nakedness and whatnot
well does this guy know you are bi?
if he doesn't know, just be like "dude... i dont wanna see any of that"

[close]

reguest a room change or disscuss the problem with the person in charge of room change but until then be straight forward and dont stop bugging him

[A.J.]

just tell him not to do that

[0=]

Or ignore it. How's he hurting you? "Ack my eyes I saw a dick!"

[sumbody2wuv]

whats wrong with walkiong naked, if it bothers u that much move out

[RaisingSand]

Wow, that sucks ... >.> And yeah, what I was going to say has pretty much already been posted.

[MysteryMan]

well im not trying to be mean or anything but if you are bi then why does it bother you so?

[irhmrh]

Ok at times i dont mind it but its like all the time and it gets weird...like when he first did it i was like ==D < ======D and it just made me go nuts. but now im just like but some pants on.
but we came to a middle ground he only sleeps naked now

[whitecar]

be honest and let him know...:cool:

[Maverick]

Problem was been resolved, confirmed by the original poster.

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