Would you be angry...

[Zarakly]

..if someone kept sending you messages on facebook/tumblr/twitter and stuff and then you find out how they are? I was just wondering, because I have been trying to help this girl by messaging her on tumblr, she seems to always hate herself and put herself down and cut and seems really depressed. She found out who I am, and I think shes going to tell everyone who I am. I prefer to sty anonymous and she has said that she wouldn't tell anyone if she knew who I was, but as soon as she found out, she stopped talking to me. I only have been trying to help. Its not like I go around telling people secrets and stuff. I keep all secrets I am told. I'm just afraid she's going to think I'm a perv or something...I never talk during class and not many talk to me. I'm just afraid they think I'm a perv or something. I really am not. I try and get along with as many and help as much as I am able. No one sees because they don't talk to me though. SO I guess what I am asking is if someone started to message you trying to help and then you found out it was some "weird nerd" would you be angry and/or call them a perv or something?

[Lost in the Echo]

Well I think it is bullshit she doesn't talk to you anymore just because you are a "nerd". When you were talking to her anonymously she liked you, so there is no reason why she shouldn't like you now that she knows who you are. If she can't accept you for who you are then that is her problem. So if she continues to avoid you, don't even waste your time with her. You seem like a great person for trying to help her, but if she doesn't like you for you, then fuck her, she isn't worth it then.

[conniption]

It's sort of hard to tell because I also fall into the 'weird nerd' category as you so put it, but I don't see how my advice would be any less important than someone else's just because I'm a 'nerd'. You'd think with how much effort and time you've taken out of YOUR life to help her she'd at least be thankful for your advice. She sounds pretty shallow to me and if she keeps acting the way she is right now then she's obviously not worth anymore of your time.

[Zarakly]

Yeah, I think I'm done with her haha. She said "its finee" after she knew who I was and then just stopped talking. She doesn't message me or anything anymore. I don't even know why I tried to help, she always complains about not having a boyfriends saying stuff like "its been 8 months since I've been single" yet she only talk to the same amount of people. Leaving like half of the people stranded sort of speak. She doesn't care about us. Now that she knows who I am though, lets see if she talks to more of us "nerdy type" of people. Whatever though, I tried to help her, she doesn't want help, oh well I guess...

[Inventor2]

I have a friend like this at school. We were really good friends but she HATED it when i said something to help her. She dosnt cut but she does say she should kill her self. We recently got in a huge fight and we dont talk to eachother anymore. My advice is to give her some space

[Mortal Coil]

[-] :O I think I follow this girl [/-]

There are some people who will judge you because of inconsequential things like that, but at the same time I don't necessarily blame her. Fact is, you can't like everyone. I'm sorry that your fondness is unrequited and that it hurt you but she's only human.