When is enough, enough?

[Dangoblin]

Hey guys.. So recently, I've found a new crush. I don't really think I would've noticed him, until one day I caught his eye (I also caught his eye again while he was changing in the changing rooms ;) but I won't get into too much detail about that). Every day in school I always catch his eye... At least once. My problem is, after my experience with my past crushes, I don't know what to do. I also feel like I'm starting to creep him out with the staring.. I don't know why, but I just feel like I am. How do I know when I should stop always looking at him when we pass in the hall?
Also, today, I was in the hall going to one of my classes, and I saw one of my friends and made a face at them..... Then right behind her was him. And we literally looked at each other. I was soo embarrassed. Then later in lunch, I was with a different friend and when we walked past his table, I looked at the last minute to find that he was looking at me......... Then my friend said that the whole table looked up at me.... I don't know whether he said something or if it's just cause of my hair (which is blue/purple in the front). I know half of the kids at the table, I'm even friends with some of them. But none of them know I'm gay, only the friend I sit with at lunch knows. So there's another question.... Is it possible that he said something to them about me staring at him? Or do you think in was because of my hair? I tried talking to my friend about it but she's not the best advice giver. I just don't know what to do.

Thanks in advance for help :)

[TigerBoy]

You know you are going to have to try to get to talk to this boy right?

We can't tell you happened at lunch that time, but it sounds like he's noticing you and that could be because he likes you. But only he can tell you that for sure.

Make a point of just saying "hi" next time you see him. That way he knows you aren't looking at him for any bad reasons and reduces the 'creep out' factor. Don't expect to stop and talk about anything even, just smile, say "hi" and see what happens. Or even just smile if you can't say "hi".

In the meantime you could see what you can find out about him and his interests, so you can be ready to talk about stuff if you get a conversation going, or start thinking of ways to get into a position where you can even have a conversation.

Good luck!

[Dangoblin]

Yea I know I'm gonna have to talk to him.... I'm trying to get my friend to befriend him so I can befriend him through her. Another thing... He's only a freshman in high school.... Do you think he would have accepted that he is gay? (if he actually is gay). I mean I know I've been gay since 7th... But I was also mature for my age.... For some reason I feel like he isn't that mature yet... But I could be wrong... I mean, I guess you never know without trying first

[joshstar]

go 4 it mate or u will always wonder what could of happend fuck what evey 1 else thinks its ur life x

[wild1]

Well you do like him so start by saying SUP and his name so he can say something to you... do that for a couple of days then see if you can sit next to him at lunch .... just say, can i sill here? Make friends with him and then you can see if there's more to it.