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moharmate
September 19th, 2012, 02:48 AM
Here the story.

There is this girl at school who i like she is flirty and happy, lets caller her Samantha. I have has "feelings" (not sure for sure, but whenever im around her i feel happy and really good ) for her, so i am constantly trying to build up the courage to ask her out on a date but she hasn't had the best track record with boyfriends (they have all been jerks, etc...), and to me it seems that she just need some one that is "normal" e.g. me. (we are some what close friends)

So today was the last day of school for ever and we were all saying our good byes to everyone, and then i realise that i have no way of getting home (didn't want to sit as school for 1 and a half hours to wait for bus) so i ask around if i can get a lift a couple of people say no but Samantha says yes so i continue saying my good byes and then we leave in her car. We arive at my house and we say our good byes and hug and a quick peck on the cheek and then i tell her "would you like to go out some time" and she replies with "what like a date or just go out" "i don't know my self" (but she got the idea of what i was saying). She told me that she would like to but her mother doesn't let her go out often (i also invited her as my +1 to a friends 18th birthday party on Friday but she has to leave early).

So what should i do; should i ask her out properly, or does the birthday count as a "date", or just do nothing.

I have no idea what to do as i have never been in a relationship before. any advice or help will be greatly appreciated.

Platinum
September 19th, 2012, 09:29 AM
If she thinks that the birthday counts as a date, it might get awkward, but you never know unless you try.

May_Star
September 19th, 2012, 10:28 AM
I think it'd be better to ask her out properly (preferably before her birthday). You wouldn't want to ruin her 18th birthday by misunderstanding her and getting into fights later.

moharmate
September 20th, 2012, 12:56 AM
It's not her birthday it another friends.
i was also thinking of after (a couple of days) asking her if she would like to go do something.