First Break Up

[torry]

What was your first break up like? How did you deal with it? How long did it take you to feel better?

[Blhhh8980]

It sucked! she broke up with me after saying i should break up with her beecause she was cheating on me with another guy:? I didnt take it well and it took awhile to get over but 2 years later were still close friends and shes a whore now but uk.. I guess its all good

[emanual]

I got over it pretty quick. Like one day.

[dontfiguremeout]

Umm well I just told the girl in person, and she said, wait, you wanna break up with me? No way, because I wanted to break up with you too right now!!!! Hahaha, so now we are like the bestest friends! But it's a big relief after it! Just do it, and don't think about it! More you think about it, more nervous you get!

[FreeFall]

First bf, we dated a whole 4 months. He dumped me...over facebook chat. Freakin facebook chat. I called my friend crying hysterically all what do I do, I'll never love again, my life is over, oh my god over facebook! Once I stopped sobbing everywhere I got pissed.

I was worth more than texts, I was worth more than pixels on a computer screen, I was worth more than having a relationship end via facebook chat. He could say I love you to my face, he was damn well capable of saying it's over to it too. I ordered him to not change his relationship status yet, he was going to come over to my house and do it te proper way. So he did, tried to hug me, pfft no bye get out of my house. It hurt for a long time, I was bitter and had trouble eating, but I picked myself up and pushed on.

[horizonlooker]

First real break up wasn't too bad. We dated for 2 years, and broke up 3 times within those 2 years (including the final). The first time was terrible (it was like 2 months in), and then the second time it was just as bad (just before 2 years in) and we got back together like 3 days later. The last time (just after 2 years in), was actually pretty easy in comparison to the others. We both cried, and then as the days past it just got easier.

[jhan3]

first break up was this year. It happened over Skype. I felt like crap the next week and then we became friends thank goodness. I think one day we will hook back up!

[Clevdawg]

Well my first wasn't that bad since we only dated for like a month but it was so sudden I shocked me. I was like wtf did I do wrong. I tried to talk to her but se ignored me. I learned from her former friend, long story, that she basically isn't in for long term relationships. I really didn't care though afterword, she never really clicked with me