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Jenny jr
September 17th, 2012, 08:02 PM
I have a crush on this guy at school. He's really nice I walk with him at lunch sometimes but I can't get our relationship to go further. I'm kinda shy. I don't think it would be a good idea to just ask him to date me. I just want some advice from you guys. Thanks

braydon123
September 17th, 2012, 08:09 PM
I think the best way to break through this barrier you are mentioning is just to take the shot and ask him out.

PinkFloyd
September 17th, 2012, 08:09 PM
You should use some subtle hints. Like tell him he looks nice but in a different voice than normal. (Not in a super noticable way but you know, subtle.

You could also work your way to being one of his really close friends if you aren't already.

You don't have to call it a "date" but ask him if he wants to go somewhere like a convenience store and get a bottle of pop or an energy drink. But clarify that it's between 2 friends. This will make him think something of you.

best of luck - Rob :)

braydon123
September 17th, 2012, 08:13 PM
You should use some subtle hints. Like tell him he looks nice but in a different voice than normal. (Not in a super noticable way but you know, subtle.

You could also work your way to being one of his really close friends if you aren't already.

You don't have to call it a "date" but ask him if he wants to go somewhere like a convenience store and get a bottle of pop or an energy drink. But clarify that it's between 2 friends. This will make him think something of you.

best of luck - Rob :)
That increases the likelihood of being friendzoned

Heavyrain4life
September 17th, 2012, 08:17 PM
... Best thing I can think of is to tell him straight up that you like him, and wait for a reaction. Being blunt tends to work well for many people. But do it in a somewhat private place where its only you and him. I'm not the best at these things, but Ive had some experience.

Jenny jr
September 18th, 2012, 05:57 AM
Thanks for your thoughts
I forgot to put in that I only known this guy for three weeks
Is it still ok to ask him out

Heavyrain4life
September 18th, 2012, 02:04 PM
Sure. Ask him out. Get to know him better.

brisk
September 18th, 2012, 02:12 PM
Thanks for your thoughts
I forgot to put in that I only known this guy for three weeks
Is it still ok to ask him out

Absolutely! It'll be far less awkward if you're just getting to know him. :)