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Andy1696
September 17th, 2012, 06:59 PM
So my name is Andy and im currently a 16 yeard old junior in high school. I have usually always been shy around girls and didnt really talk to them and because of that I have never had a GF. But after joining the cross country team in my school ive been becoming more confident and making friends that are girls.
Well anyways ill get to it, Saturday night I was went to my friends house because he was having a fire. It was just 2 of my friends and I until a friend and I decided to invite a girl. My friend knew this girl all of his life basically and they were very good friends. So she came over and all of us were just talking and hanging out. When we were gonna leave me and my other friend had to walk her to her house because her dad was sleeping and it was 1 AM so we weren't gonna let her walk home by herself. When we were leaving it was cold so I offered her my jacket and she accepted. So it was kind of quiet on the way back but we talked some. So we decided to pass by my friends house and pick up some bikes to take her home. My friend took his mountain bike and I took a street bike with pegs so I could take her on the back. When she got on the back she was basically hugging me at first lol but then she was just holding herself on by my shirt touching my chest a little haha. So when we dropped her off I choked, I wanted too give her a hug but my dad texted me and I was just staring at my phone until she just gave me my jacket back and said thanks and we said bye. That night I just stayed over my friends house and could not stop thinking about her.
So the next day I wanted too see her, so I texted my friend who knows her very well saying lets go too the movies. So we met up later at around 8 and we were thinking on who we could go with. I said to invite that girl (well call her Ashley) as a suggestion (they didn't know then that i liked her). So I got my friends phone and texted her. I asked her what she was doing and then asked her if she wanted to go with us. But she had school Monday because she goes to catholic school and Monday was a Jewish holiday so public schools didn't have school but she did. So we cancelled on going to the movies because 3 guys going to see Nemo is kind of weird haha. But I still wanted too see her so I told my 2 friends to go to the park that was by her house and we could go to the park with her. But her mom didn't let her but she said too go to her house and we could hang out their. So we went and started talking but she told us something interesting while we were their. She said she was gonna try to convince her mom to go out of state and accompany her dad somewhere. So her and her sister would be alone for about a week starting this Thursday. I don't know why she told us that really but i was a little confused. Well when we were gonna leave I pussied out again and just said bye to her and made no body contact.
Were gonna go to the movies this Friday with my same two friends and im gonna ask her if she wants to go with us. But the thing is I don't have her number and im just gonna text her from my friends phone but to let her know it was me on Wednesday or Thursday.
Now should I get her number from my friend or try and get it from her? Should I try and hug her next time or is it too soon? Im not even sure if shes into me so how could I know and what could I do to try to let her know i kind of like her? Any advice would be helpful, thanks for reading if you took the time too.

Heavyrain4life
September 17th, 2012, 08:09 PM
Just go for it. If she rejects you, at least you'll know where you stand with her. You should also ask her out for lunch if that goes well enough. I'm going through something similar right now, so don't be afraid to try. Also, try to get her number from her. Calling her without her knowing you can would probably creep her out.

SmileyKylee99
September 17th, 2012, 08:27 PM
just go for it! :)

Blessthefall
September 18th, 2012, 08:21 AM
Use the Zechariah Rule of Reckless Abandon. Just do it. Don't deliberate, do.

brisk
September 18th, 2012, 03:20 PM
Just go for it. If she rejects you, at least you'll know where you stand with her. You should also ask her out for lunch if that goes well enough. I'm going through something similar right now, so don't be afraid to try. Also, try to get her number from her. Calling her without her knowing you can would probably creep her out.

I agree with entirety. She seems to respect you.
Ask her for her number directly; then you won't appear shallow or disinterested. Let her know you're open to it! :)