older guys problems?

[Pipo]

I've been thinking these few questions for a while now and I can't seem to get answer to them without asking. So I hope there are older guys here like 18 and up? If you guys have this kind of "problem" too.

1. I usually need to rub or something happen in real life to bone up without touching. If I rub a little while I usually bone up rather easily but not so if I just watch porn and etc. When I was 15 I just needed to pull my pants down and I was hard as steel lol :rolleyes:

2. Sometimes I just feel like I wanna jerk off whole day long like I keep off for 1-3 days from jerking off then some day I just get really horny and jerk off like 2-3 times at least. Next day I don't feel horny at all.

3. Sometimes when I go over 3 times a day at the 4th time I can't even bone up fully anymore or hard as on first time I was thinking that could be "normal" cuz I'm not so much anymore in puberty?

4. I'm also starting to find jerking off less important or not so much of fun anymore. I mean I don't need to do it every day I just want to do it less often cuz it generally feels better and so on anyone else got this?

[Swagging god]

Yes I'm 18 and I sometimes have this trouble but only if I jerk off like 3 or 4 times everyday. I don't normally do that. I think what you describe is normal mainly because you're using all your testosterone doing this it's not really anything to worry about if it bothers you try going 3 or 4 days without jerking off or only jerk off once a day and I think this will solve your dilemna.

[Pipo]

Yes I'm 18 and I sometimes have this trouble but only if I jerk off like 3 or 4 times everyday. I don't normally do that. I think what you describe is normal mainly because you're using all your testosterone doing this it's not really anything to worry about if it bothers you try going 3 or 4 days without jerking off or only jerk off once a day and I think this will solve your dilemna.

ya last week I went 5 days off without jerking off and everything was fine. I guess it's that I'm not so much in puberty anymore so it isn't that easy to go several times a day.

[TheTopDawg]

It's normal, I used to do it everyday, but now it just doesn't seem as important to do it. I do it maybe 2-3 times a week now. Most of the time I just do it once a week. Part of your problem with porn might be that you have become desinsitized (hope I spelled that right) to it. If you have watched it a lot in the past then your mind can get used to seeing it and not longer as aroused as it used to be.

Hope this helps!

[LSEagle2]

Just try doing it one time a day... right before bed, give that a shot

[nfs4394]

I can sympathize with you completely on this issue Pipo. About the time I turned 18, it felt like my desires dropped way down from where they were when I was beginning puberty up until that point. So, to answer your questions:

1. I too need to give myself some manual stimulation before i can get hard whereas i used to be able to get a boner just looking at two people making out, let alone full out porn.

2. How turned on I am also varies from day to day. Like you, I used to have days where all I could think of was jerking off, and so I would 3-4 times. Now, I have these stretches where I feel disinterested in it and am indifferent to whether or not I do actually masturbate. So, instead of jerking off everyday like I used to, I will now go for 3-4 days (or even a week) without doing it. At that point, I will say to myself: Damn, its been a while since I jacked off and I feel pretty horny! haha. I can then relax and treat myself to an awesome session with a much more explosive and enjoyable finish (I probably don't even need to tell you this, since you have probably seen for yourself a noticeable increase in the size of your load and the feeling of your orgasm after just a few days). But even though I haven't been masturbating as much as I used to, I actually find myself happier because of it.

3. I can pretty much sum this question up to the fact that we are finishing out puberty. Therefore, our bodies and our minds aren't nearly as hormone/testosterone driven as they were just a couple of years ago. Sure, it's disappointing not being able to get it up as easily or as often as we used to, but that's just a part of life.

4. This is just a continuation of number 2. My advice is that you shouldn't feel that masturbation is any less important or fun now that you are an adult. If anything, it should become even more important and feel better overall. The whole point of masturbating is to discover our bodies: why certain techniques feel better than others, why jerking off at a certain time is preferable to another, what lube should we use if any, etc. The better you get to know yourself now, the more you will find you will enjoy the overall experience. Also, never shy away from experimenting because this is the best time of your life to do it. When the mood finally strikes you and an idea comes to mind, just go for it. Tasting your cum, anal play, trying different techniques, and trying different lubes are just a number of things from an endless list that are all valid things to try while masturbating and trust me, you are not the first one who has. Finally, don't feel weird just because you don't want to masturbate everyday anymore. Just do it when you actually feel like you need to and you will find that you will be much happier in the long run. Be careful though, because if you wait long enough, you could wake up to a sticky mess in your shorts the next morning haha!

[Pipo]

@nfs4394

That is actually really really good reply thanks ! :)

Oh I just want to clear this up I don't feel like jerking off is less important or anything. I really like doing it like keeping 5 days off or something it really makes me happy and relaxed after the big load like you said it is a big yeah. Yes it's true that there are days when I don't feel like I wanna do it but then there are days when I want to do it.

I've also tried many different techniques so when the mood comes I know what I want to do weather it's anal or just jerking off in certain way or position etc.

But thank you very much for the reply :)

[dantheman5000]

Hello im here to try and answer your questions! Im 20 years old and i can relate to what your feeling.

1. I totally agree with the fact that when we were younger it was always an instant erection. If you masturbate regularly then its difficult to get a max size erection. Your age may make it harder to get an erection because we arent as hormonal.

2. This could be your mind starting to mature. puberty ends at 18 with growth development but the last stages are your mind. The mind grows to think more like an adult.

3. Like i said chronic masturbation can make your erections less stiff the more you J/o.

4. Lastly i just wanna sum it all up and say the we are growing into adults and our minds feel as if we dont need to jerk every second on the second.

[donk]

Your probably de-sensitized through doing it too much. Leave it for a couple of weeks, no masturbating, no sex, no watching porn. Then see what happens. I bet it feels different then? You need to lay off doing anything sexual to yourself and limit it to once a day or once a week - then you'll know what your body is up for. There's more to life than sex - really! Just go out there and cycle, climb a mountain, swim a river, play pool or play a game of sometime, but whatever you do take your mind off sex - you'll be glad you did! Remember, those guys who went to the Olympics a couple of weeks ago in the UK don't act like sex fiends - they concentrate on their sport - and all the better for doing it. Support your country in athletics, then one day maybe you'll be an Olympiad - fancy that? You can do it!:yes::yeah:

[Pipo]

Thanks for the replies glad to know I'm not the only who feels like it. :)

[horde]

i'm 19

1. Lol, i get hard as steel so easily still.



2.same happens for me.



3. Yupp, that happens too.



4.I still find it just as fun though. I do it more out of habit though.

[Hermes]

Erections do happen with less stimulation earlier in puberty hence the random boners. Think of the random boners as a kind of false alarm and as you get older you brain gets learns to avoid the false alarms so you will need more stimulation to get an erection.

I haven't lost interest in masturbating. You obviously found other things that take your attention off it but sexual tension will still build up and going a few days between orgasms will mean you are very horny on the days you do it hence why you feel like doing it more than once.

[Sean4U]

OK, I'm only 16 and haven't gotten to that stage yet, but I really found the answers interesting ..... as like what to expect as I get older......thanks for the info guys

[Swagg]

Sounds normal bro

[Pipo]

OK, I'm only 16 and haven't gotten to that stage yet, but I really found the answers interesting ..... as like what to expect as I get older......thanks for the info guys

No problem :D