View Full Version : How to let go of the past?
xXJust Jump ItXx
September 16th, 2012, 07:45 PM
I hate explaining it all :( But how do you let go...
Lost in the Echo
September 16th, 2012, 08:47 PM
I think the best way to let go of the past or let go of anything is to try to find closure, the best way to do that is to talk to somebody about whatever is bothering you.
I'm here for you man if you need to talk (:
xXJust Jump ItXx
September 16th, 2012, 08:49 PM
I think the best way to let go of the past or let go of anything is to try to find closure, the best way to do that is to talk to somebody about whatever is bothering you.
I'm here for you man if you need to talk (:
Thanks, Bo... Ive talked to OMG I think atleast 20 people... Its never easier and never helps!
Extreme586
September 16th, 2012, 10:18 PM
I don't think we can truly ever let go of the past so to speak. I think we just become better at coping with the things that once hurt us more than they do now. For example, I still like this guy that I met freshman year in band. Coolest kid I've ever met and he is the only person I have ever felt that way about. The moment I saw him my entire body ignited. Since then I have seen pictures of him on Facebook going to homecoming, hanging out with friends I never could really even talk to or be normal around, and just watch him grow in that popular click that I always considered a barrier for people like me.
It's becoming easier to look at him and deal with that stabbing pain, because I've found someone new who is good looking, has some similarities to me, and who I don't feel is totally out of my league. Sure I'll never forget it because I truly believe it was the first time I fell in love, but this new guy I like definitely isn't me "settling for less" either. ;)
NotAvailable
September 17th, 2012, 11:05 AM
i will be honest with you Kurt , it' very hard to let go ..... for me i tried so hard , but i failed " and believe me i never used to be failure" i think now i reached to stage that i hope the past is the one who let go , the memories ... the feelings... the images... the laughters .. the good time and the hard time to let go .
or i have to live with that pain till i'm used to it ..... to be addicted to it .
sorry if that wasn't helpful ... but that's my experience
The Mockingjay
September 17th, 2012, 04:28 PM
Find closure, then something to keep you busy until you realise one day you no longer care. I was used by someone I thought I loved once, and I just picked myself up, told myself I was better than him and got stuck into doing stuff with my friends and school work and stuff. Try to find a hobby or new friends or a new girl/boyfriend, it'll all help. Good luck :)
xXJust Jump ItXx
September 17th, 2012, 05:27 PM
Find closure, then something to keep you busy until you realise one day you no longer care. I was used by someone I thought I loved once, and I just picked myself up, told myself I was better than him and got stuck into doing stuff with my friends and school work and stuff. Try to find a hobby or new friends or a new girl/boyfriend, it'll all help. Good luck :)
I dont know how I can find closure.. :( And Its something Im not gonna forget or ever not care about...
The Mockingjay
September 17th, 2012, 05:35 PM
I dont know how I can find closure.. :( And Its something Im not gonna forget or ever not care about...
Do you want someone to speak to? Add me on Skype if yu want, I'm always here :)
emanual
September 17th, 2012, 10:00 PM
everyone i know...has a reason to say... put the past away, i wish you would step back from that ledge my friend...you could, cut ties, with all the lies, youve been living in....if you didnot want to see me again, i would understaaaannnd.. good song :D
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