View Full Version : School Showers PLEASE HELP
eric12345
September 16th, 2012, 07:09 PM
i am uncirumsiced and i know that most of the kid are cut. So i am embaresed to take a shower any advice. I am also small so... plz help
Inventor2
September 16th, 2012, 07:24 PM
Do you have to take a shower? Or is it an option? At my school its an option. But if you have to take one just be ok with the way you look. Knowone will say anything, trust me. And also i doubt your small lol, everyone says that!
eric12345
September 16th, 2012, 07:34 PM
its a option but a bunch of guys do it. i don't want to be left out also i kind a want to compare
Luke91
September 16th, 2012, 07:56 PM
When I started to take showers in middle school I was in the same situation. I was the only uncircumcised boy in my pe class. They did not laugh or make fun but being different bothered me a lot. Finally I asked my parents if I could get circumcised which took care of the problem. I do recommend you do take showers after pe.
Inventor2
September 16th, 2012, 07:59 PM
Like luke said, your just fine. I think you are WAYYYYY over thinking it. Knowbody is gunna care
eric12345
September 16th, 2012, 08:02 PM
When I started to take showers in middle school I was in the same situation. I was the only uncircumcised boy in my pe class. They did not laugh or make fun but being different bothered me a lot. Finally I asked my parents if I could get circumcised which took care of the problem. I do recommend you do take showers after pe.
how did you ask your parents?
Foamy
September 16th, 2012, 08:05 PM
If you want to do it then do it. nobody will make fun of you. The ones tht do are jerks anyway.
Thomas01
September 17th, 2012, 05:11 AM
Don't sweat it, first off I don't think guys would be looking at each other, but if they do, people mature at different rates. And also it doesn't matter if you are cut or uncut, no one will care
Pipo
September 17th, 2012, 08:17 AM
I'd rather enjoy being in your position.
Being different is actually fun just take your clothes off normally and have a shower ^^ if someone says something then let them say and reply back nicely without saying insults or anything.
You could say "That's how everyone is born with the foreskin my parents didn't want to cut it away since it's natural to have it" something like that I'd say.
VirtualGuy012
September 17th, 2012, 04:18 PM
If they're going to make fun of you, they're awful. Don't worry about it, but if you don't want to, don't worry about it
Zarakly
September 17th, 2012, 04:55 PM
Don't worry about it at all. I take showers and stuff all the time and am fine to people seeing mine even though I am small too. The only thing that really happened was it made my friend proud because he was bigger, but idc. Anyway, no one will really look I don't think. Does your school have 2 locker rooms? One for soccer and one for football? Mine does and I use the soccer one because its smaller and only like 2-4 people use it. Anyway, the only thing I get worried about it my torso because I am REALLY hairy and fat. I have the man boobs and yea. Its embarrassing for me, but I laugh and play around and just go with it. Eventually they'll stop making fun of you and you'll get used to it. Its probably only going to be bad for like the first 1-2 times. Don't worry about anything. GOod luck and have fun :)
PS- If you really don't want to take off your pants/underwear, you can use the sink and papertowel and deoderant. I sweat profusely, like even in the winter when we played soccer I was sweating. I use the sink most of the time because its also quicker, but it all depends on preference.
flypower191
September 17th, 2012, 05:07 PM
>_< good thing nobody at my skewl likes to use da showers XP
horizonlooker
September 17th, 2012, 06:55 PM
Honestly, what's there to make fun of? Your uncircumcised, so are a lot of people. It's nothing to be embarrassed about. It's just you. Honestly, if that's what they make fun of you about, don't even let it bother you. Also, since you don't have to take a shower, then skip it? Plus, I doubt that they would even confront you about your penis because that means they're looking. And if they're "macho" they wouldn't admit it.
TheWaterPrince
September 17th, 2012, 07:03 PM
Its nothing to be worried about and you say you wanna compare so some of the guys might find it interesting seeing someone whose uncut lol
Luke91
September 26th, 2012, 08:25 PM
how did you ask your parents?
I thought about it and worried about it for a long time. I practiced what I was going to say but just could not get it out. Then one evening when eating dinner I guess I was quiet and my dad asked if something was wrong. I took a chance and just went out with it. To my surprise my parents were quick to say yes.
IAMWILL
September 26th, 2012, 09:12 PM
I seriously would not choose to get circumsized because you think all of your friends are circumsized, truth is probably less than 2/3rds of them are. I know that among my friends. The only reason you should get circumsized is for medical reasons, such as if you have really tight foreskin. At my school, most people shower in boxers anyway. Not to mention that everyone there is in the same situation as you. Just get in and get out. You'll be fine.
Gordo
September 26th, 2012, 10:18 PM
I seriously would not choose to get circumsized because you think all of your friends are circumsized, truth is probably less than 2/3rds of them are. I know that among my friends. The only reason you should get circumsized is for medical reasons, such as if you have really tight foreskin. At my school, most people shower in boxers anyway. Not to mention that everyone there is in the same situation as you. Just get in and get out. You'll be fine.
I don't think I'd get a surgery to be like my friends, but I understand what your saying or what your situation is. I play a sport and I'm a member of a health club, so I have showered in open showers for years, so I've seen hundreds of guys, maybe even a thousand - just tons. I've never seen an uncut guy.
The girls I know were laughing one day so I said what's up and they were laughing and giggling about a guy that one of them was with that wasn't cut. They were laughing when the girl said about the guy that was still natural, "I wouldn't recommend it, ick!" Then they asked me if I ever saw one, I said no, I've seen a lot of them, but never an uncut one and figured around here we're all cut.
She threw it out there that the guy was of Latino heritage, so maybe that's why. I told her/them that I no idea. Something else out there that she told the other girls was, "it's like a Lexus or a Mercedes, ya don't get one and then not get a sunroof and a bunch of the options. Go for penis with the options".
So they asked me what I thought about it and I told them, "that's fine and I'm actually glad I'm cut, but if I wasn't, I wouldn't do it NOW because even when we sleep we get erections and don't have a clue how that would work with a fresh wound".
So I totally get why you'd consider getting one, but man I just think about any other cut I've had I wouldn't want to stretch it to the max 10 times a day. Would you? Idk, maybe it heals quickly, so it would only be for a day or two. Don't know.
Sir Suomi
September 26th, 2012, 10:24 PM
Dude, don't worry about it. Nobody should give you crap, everyone matures at a different rate, and penis sizes won't matter. My classmates and I are mainly all 14, and majority of our class have penises that are quite small, but I never make a comment to them.
Nayef
September 26th, 2012, 11:02 PM
Where i live all are cut and i think i would be proud to be uncut because different makes you special and unique :-)
Abyssal Echo
September 26th, 2012, 11:12 PM
i am uncirumsiced and i know that most of the kid are cut. So i am embaresed to take a shower any advice. I am also small so... plz help
Nothing to worry about dude :) I'm uncut too :D am deff not hung. best thing I can say is welcome to the minority that the majority want to check out.
AllSwaggedUp
September 27th, 2012, 05:37 AM
I am uncut too. We have to take showers here as well and mostly a mix of cut and uncut are in there. no one comments on sizes or anything... or else it would just be awkward cause people would know they were looking....
Avenged
October 23rd, 2012, 11:56 AM
Ah don't worry, most guys realize that circumcision isn't always 100% common. you're fine.
Charlie99
November 3rd, 2012, 11:40 AM
Mate, seriously, I wouldn't worry about it, If people take the piss, just ask them why they're looking.
I fully understand that it feels strange being different, it's not that bad being dfferent to everyone else.
Benm
November 3rd, 2012, 08:22 PM
honestly they won't care
Lost in the Echo
November 3rd, 2012, 08:30 PM
Either try to just shower really quick and get done fast, or if it's an option at your school, don't take a shower. Out of all the other kids though, I doubt you're the only guy who's uncut, or has the smallest penis. Usually things seem worse than they really are, like I said though, you probably won't be the smallest or the only uncircumcised guy, I think you'll be fine.
StoneColdNicky
November 3rd, 2012, 09:58 PM
Mate, seriously, I wouldn't worry about it, If people take the piss, just ask them why they're looking.
I fully understand that it feels strange being different, it's not that bad being dfferent to everyone else.
Exactly. This is how it is at my school. Even if people do look, most of them don't say anything because they don't want people wondering or talking about why they were looking so closely.
reddie
November 3rd, 2012, 11:10 PM
You have a foreskin. You know what that means? Your parents didn't want to pay to have a doctor touch it without your permission in order to chop part of it off.
If anyone looks, and other people have said it, just politely call them out on it. The odds are great that they'll stop looking once you realize they're looking.
BakeBake
November 4th, 2012, 05:07 AM
1.) Your penis size is nothing to be worried about, but if you do take a shower and people do end up saying something, just say "It doesn't matter what size it is, it matters what you do with it 2.) Or you can just shower with a pair of underwear on....
spartanrob
November 4th, 2012, 12:19 PM
When we started showering in middle school we found out that one friend was uncut. No one teased him. To be honest we were all curious and he was the center of attention in the shower for about 2 days. Then it was just normal and no one said anything.
The captain
November 4th, 2012, 12:36 PM
if mostly all are cut and you uncut, enjoy be uncut..there's nothing wrong to be un or cut, only not the same..don't care about other boys
teenfromNJ
November 4th, 2012, 02:35 PM
You should be fine! If you don't feel comfortable then don't do it! It is all up to you! All guys grow at different times too so its not your fault that you are small!!!
teenuser101
November 5th, 2012, 07:42 PM
It's the opposite at my school. I am circumcised and nobody else is. But we don't have to shower, only if we want to so I just never do.
StoneColdNicky
November 6th, 2012, 05:11 AM
1.) Your penis size is nothing to be worried about, but if you do take a shower and people do end up saying something, just say "It doesn't matter what size it is, it matters what you do with it 2.) Or you can just shower with a pair of underwear on....
I think someone showering with their underwear on would draw more attention. People might start to wonder why... And what would you do afterwards? Carry around the wet undies in your school bag?
niceguy887
November 6th, 2012, 06:22 AM
Don't worry about it. I went through the same thing. I actually avoided the whole situation, but that's how I deal with things. You're lucky to be uncut, unlike the others.
Whatever you do, don't get circumcised just to look like the others. That would be very foolish. Enjoy what you have.
sdude
November 6th, 2012, 08:36 AM
When I started to take showers in middle school I was in the same situation. I was the only uncircumcised boy in my pe class. They did not laugh or make fun but being different bothered me a lot. Finally I asked my parents if I could get circumcised which took care of the problem. I do recommend you do take showers after pe.
Wow, you got your dick cut off to "fit" in????That's a terrible reason to have that done...I hope you had other reasons to make that happen. You might add how much the surgery hurt and how long it took before you could even play with yourself again....jeez...that's terrible advice...
dusman77
November 6th, 2012, 12:13 PM
Don't worry about it. Just do whatever you need to do and leave. You don''t even have to talk to them if you're uncomfortable.
NSoKShannon
November 6th, 2012, 12:33 PM
Don't worry, everything will be fine. :)
BakeBake
November 6th, 2012, 08:47 PM
I think someone showering with their underwear on would draw more attention. People might start to wonder why... And what would you do afterwards? Carry around the wet undies in your school bag?
Well some people would change into their underwear that they leave at school while they put their uniform on, then they could just take a shower with it on, and when they are done they just put their normal underwear back on... And for the wet underwear, kids just left dried it out with a spinner, and then just left it in their locker since it was pretty much dry... But this was also pool class, so it was different.
niceguy44
December 5th, 2012, 04:13 PM
don't worry about it. you'll be fine
GoldenSnitch
December 5th, 2012, 10:40 PM
Do not worry bout it.
Aajj333
December 5th, 2012, 10:43 PM
Well, not everyone is cut but everyone has a penis
devyn704
December 5th, 2012, 10:55 PM
ur skin is normal if u dont have it ur parents are cruel
jockeyboy97
December 6th, 2012, 12:47 AM
Don't worry about if your cut or uncut. At my school in the locker room there are some guys who are cut and uncut and nobody cares, I mean really were all the same its just our dicks look alittle different but have the same function and purpose in life. Hey my dick is small it even gets smaller when I'm cold in the locker room but I'm ok with it because other guys get the same way too. So don't worry about it be proud of what you have as long as it works and makes you feel good.
passerby123
December 6th, 2012, 04:23 AM
If you want to do it then do it. nobody will make fun of you. The ones tht do are jerks anyway.
Agree, only jerks would laugh at your length and if you have circumsised or not :) I'm uncircumsised and I don't care if the jerks laughed at me, however if you are really uncomfortable with it, then you should discuss it with your parents and ask for their opinion :)
ThatGuy69
December 30th, 2012, 10:56 AM
Being uncircumcised is great there is nothing to worry about
hawaiiboardrider
February 11th, 2013, 07:41 PM
this is kinda an older post but hey, let me just tell you this. Do it. Your completely over thinking it and for the reason of being uncut: Show it off. more kids are gonna be curious if anything. and you probably THINK your small, but in reality, your probably at least average. and a flaccid penis means nothing. its all about the erect size anyway. good luck mate.
staples
February 12th, 2013, 09:58 PM
dont worry people are all different
justin 13
February 28th, 2013, 11:40 AM
Dude I am 13 y.o, small and uncut too. I take showers in my shorts or boxer briefs, change my clothes in the stall.
hero98
February 28th, 2013, 02:03 PM
if they make fun of you they are idiots, simple as that
thats like people with tattoos making fun of people without tattoos or people that got a nosejob making fun of people that didnt get one
as for your size...you wont be the only small one ;) and even if you are youll be soft in there so nobody will know if youre a grower and theyll probably keep quiet
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