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Cicero
September 13th, 2012, 04:24 PM
So in my school, there are students who think I'm gay, if they ask I simply, and respectfully tell them I'm not gay I like girls. So this one kid was asking me a bunch of questions, on one of the questions he asked "Do you like girls?" I said "No guys." Then he and 4 others who heard said out loud "Ohhhh!". Right then, I noticed I made a mistake, and I said "No I mean girls". What happened, was I thought he asked "Do you not like girls?" or do you don't like girls. Or something like that. So then I said in answering to that question, no guys. As in no I don't like guys (As in a relationship). Some are always trying to trick me into saying I like guys, when I don't. Then the kid said, Ohh he's blushing!!! I felt so embarrassed and scared. I wasn't thinking, and I was thinking that he was doing a trick question. What do I do?!?!

Do you think that they will forget by tomorrow, or when do you think they'll forget? I'm going to try to 'hang low' in class, like the saying out of sight out of mind.

Edit:
Also, I feel like I affirmed they're belief in me being gay. Then I said a few minutes later I'm not gay and he just ignored it. I'm actually a homoromantic homosexual, but I'm not gonna tell everyone that for a few reasons, one of them is cause I don't feel like I should label myself, and then I'll have to explain what it means.

Stryker125
September 13th, 2012, 04:32 PM
Not sure what grade you're in, but stuff like that used to happen to me in middle/high school. Try not to let it bother you, it sounds like kids just being kids, cruel as they can be sometimes. Just don't give them too much of a reaction, and it should all blow over eventually. It won't be fun to mock you if you don't react, so they'll move on and find someone else to make fun of.

FreeFall
September 13th, 2012, 05:32 PM
Don't let it bother you. You already gave them a reaction they wanted, don't let them see you're still bothered and pensive over their "trick". They sound like they'll forget it and move on.

wild1
September 13th, 2012, 08:28 PM
They'll probably forget about it but if that dude keeps it up just say to him ..... I can spread lies about you too and bad ones

Cicero
September 13th, 2012, 09:47 PM
:yes:They'll probably forget about it but if that dude keeps it up just say to him ..... I can spread lies about you too and bad ones

Fairly good advice but he's really popular, and is a huge weightlifter who has friends on the football and wrestling team.

FreeFall
September 13th, 2012, 10:54 PM
Those guys are easy to knock down. You make it sound like he's higher on the popularity scale than you, guess what's holding him up sitting nice and pretty? The underdogs, the support beams of his ego tower. Don't fight fire with fire, bring a bazooka.

West Coast Sheriff
September 14th, 2012, 12:01 AM
Not sure what grade you're in, but stuff like that used to happen to me in middle/high school. Try not to let it bother you, it sounds like kids just being kids, cruel as they can be sometimes. Just don't give them too much of a reaction, and it should all blow over eventually. It won't be fun to mock you if you don't react, so they'll move on and find someone else to make fun of.

Don't let it bother you. You already gave them a reaction they wanted, don't let them see you're still bothered and pensive over their "trick". They sound like they'll forget it and move on.

I would mostly agree with these two posts, just don't make a big deal out of it. And just act like it didnt happen and good luck

FullyAlive
September 14th, 2012, 04:38 PM
Its only going to be an issue if you make it one, so they think trying to get you to say you're gay is funny they sound like they're 13. Just ignore it don't bother trying to correct them or anything, rise above it and show them you don't care. They will just find someone else to tease.

Sleepy Raisin
September 14th, 2012, 06:49 PM
God i hate people like that.. But same thing kinda happened to me.. A rumor started that i kissed another guy in 6th grade, and it spread.. It sucked. All because this one guy thought we were friends and was attached to me like leech. Finally in the 7th grade the rumor was diminished. So all was good!

I would just become invisible, and give it a week or 2, it should pass once you've denied it enough..

Extreme586
September 14th, 2012, 10:32 PM
People just want something to talk about, thats the only reason they bother asking you these questions. People make the assumption that I'm gay just because I have never kissed a girl or had sex or been in a relationship. I'm a good guy with a good heart once you get to know me, I feel like you are kind of in the same situation. I'm actually gay but don't want people to know. All you have to do is keep strong, if people tongue tie you like that, make it clear what you thought was being asked and clear things up.

Often times they will make fun of you for it anyways even if you do clarify. Just don't over react and even if you aren't, just understand they will probably do it anyways just to get a laugh out of it.
They think they are being funny but really it's just hurtful. Hell anymore when I'm with my native "friends" who do this to me constantly, I don't even react anymore. I just either throw in the occasional fake laugh, or go silent with a blank expression. It doesn't fix anything, they still keep it going.

Nothing you can do about it. You know who you are. Do your best to stay away from people like this. I avoid my "friends" at all cost. If worse comes to worse, tell them to stay the fuck away from you and get seriously pissed off. It's honestly the one thing I haven't tried yet, that sort of reaction is too much effort and headache for me.