Sexual activity...

[Cognizant]

Okay, this is going to sound insane, but i'm really struck...

So basically, someone is offering me a blow job...
The thing is, they're 2 years older than me, about to turn 18 soon, in college, and I don't know him that well.

My gut is split. I know I probably want it, but at the same time, I feel that it's wrong, and i'll greatly regret it, with age being a factor.

I really don't know what to do. Please help :/
(Also, i'm 15...)

[sdude]

you aren't comfortable with it, you will probably regret it the second it's done...don't do it. He is practically an adult, he is taking advantage of you. You need to tell him NO!!!

[Pyro99]

You shouldn't, it's wrong. If you really want to, you should find someone else.

[Jimmy Page]

Take some time to consider the pros and cons,just remember that whatever you pick,don't let people get you down because of it :)

[joshstar]

just take ur time and c what happens

[Matt_2012]

If you feel that its gonna get on your nerves and cant stop thinking about it but cant decide then get to know him abit better. i guess its ok as long as he isn't pressuring you.

[Swagging god]

It's simple, if u feel it would be wrong don't do it. No sexual act is worth doing if before u think your going to regret it. Hope this helps please keep us/me updated on your decision whatever u choose to do.

[TigerBoy]

As a casual thing, I can understand you being cautious with an older guy : if you don't have much trust or friendship then I'd suggest you wait until you feel ready.

Your ages are identical to me and my boyfriend, and its working very well for us so far, but we had a close friendship all our lives before we first had sex.

[deeda95]

The age factor is something that happens all the time, but if you don't have a close enough relationship to take that step then mayb you should just be friend and let things develop as they will

[frankrocky]

If you have to ask them you really shouldn't do it. Like you point out you will regret it after and you can't undo what is done. If it is going to happen you will know when it is right.

[DerBear]

Pat, to be honest,

If you, yourself are feeling very uncomfortable with it right now then chances are after the activity has been completed...then you will feel even worse. Plus you don't know this guy all too well. I can't tell you what to do, because you are your own person and I have no right to tell you what to do. However, from what I have gathered from what you have portrayed online is that refusing the offer would be better in the long run as you don't know the outcome and if you are already feeling really uneasy about the whole thing then it is probably better to refuse.

However the choice is up to you. I wish you best of luck with whatever outcome you choose to have.

[milestails]

if it wrong dont do it just ask him no i dont want to then see what he says

[JimmyIsNowAMan]

if you're questioning it, something is tell you not to...at least not yet.

[wild1]

You hardly know him so to me its like a random guy wants to do something that should only be from a guy you really like and he is older too and probably more mature than you are.

[MeldieBoy]

It dosnt seem right to me either you barely know him and he is 17 he is taking advantage of you in my opinion, I'd say don't do it:)

[Cognizant]

Yeah, If just the thought of it ruined my brunch period at school, there's no way I would get myself to do that....

Thanks for all the help guys! :)

[justinglives]

I say go for it if he's cute!,
Its only 2 years and why waste a good blowjob!

[Infidelitas]

I say go for it if he's cute!,
Its only 2 years and why waste a good blowjob!

It is incredibly shallow if you do with someone just because they're cute.

Pat, if you even slightly feel uncomfortable with this, you gotta say no. You don't know the guy very well, maybe it isn't such a good idea. Maybe get to know him for a few months, and maybe you will feel better about it. You have to do what is right by yourself. Get to know the guy, and maybe it will work out :)

[AnthonyJames4]

In all honesty go for it... I've gotten 2 blow jobs from guys and they're much better than any woman's blowjobn:wub::what::yes::yes::yes:

[josh_9]

boy or girl?

[lambo420]

I'm not tellin ya what to do, But i would go for it before he turns 18. Than its Illegal.

[horizonlooker]

Consider it, but make sure your decision is one that you're not going to regret. If you decide to do it, and he's 17, it's not so bad since you're both underage, but as soon as he turns 18, that could be a lot of trouble. Who knows, maybe something could come out of this if it's not just a one time thing. But no matter what you pick, don't let other people, or yourself for that matter, get to you.

[Collin97]

Listen to your heart;) It will make the right decision;)

[LSEagle2]

If you dont know this person that well just yet, then i would honestly wait till you get to know them a little more.... build a friendship and a bond.. they should be able to understand that if you explain yourself, you dont want to rush into a situation and regret it once it happens... Take your time