Uh oh-Maybe?

[Music4Lyfe]

So about 2 years ago I dated this girl who I liked and she liked me back. But she also liked one of my best friends and they pretty much hung out more than I did with her. Anyway it led to some heartbreak and sorrows and issues with trust and all this junk. But around 2 weeks ago we started texting each other and really hitting it off. She wants to hang out tomorrow but I don't want things to get like they did last time. What should I do?? :what:

[West Coast Sheriff]

Just try it and see how it goes

[FreeFall]

pros and cons list sounds good for here.
pros; it's been two years she could have changed. You know her better than I so that's all I can say.
cons; she liked your "best friend". She hung out with them more than you, the one she was in a relationship with.

But does any of this mean that she wants to get back with you? what if she's just looking to be friends? If it does lead to rekindling on both sides, do you trust her? Can you trust her? Will/would you be able to move past what happened 2 years ago? If you're iffy on anything trust related, or hesitate for even a second, you shouldn't. It wouldn't be healthy for you, fair to her, fair to yourself, and you'd be a worried mess for as long as you're with her again. If you say yes to all, play your cards right and wait and see.

[Saxophone 44]

Did she end up dating your friend?

[Music4Lyfe]

For a little while yes. But they were really good friends before I started talking to her. I think she was just confused. I just think things need to be taken slow. Liike really slow lol

[Music4Lyfe]

So I ended up blowing her off because I don't think its right. I had an excuse to not go anyway but after a night of thinking it over, I just don't think this is right...

[dontfiguremeout]

Well can't you just be friends? I mean you don't have to get back together with her! If you just lay some grounds to her, I think everything will be fine! Just tell her what you feel, and see if she changed by her response! But yeah, just be friends! Don't have to be together!

[West Coast Sheriff]

So I ended up blowing her off because I don't think its right. I had an excuse to not go anyway but after a night of thinking it over, I just don't think this is right...
Good, I think u made the right decision

Well can't you just be friends? I mean you don't have to get back together with her! If you just lay some grounds to her, I think everything will be fine! Just tell her what you feel, and see if she changed by her response! But yeah, just be friends! Don't have to be together!

And I would recommend u still b friends, just u dant have to go out. But good luck in whatever you choose to do.