help me please!! :(

[confid3ntial]

Ok so I need some help on helping someone else but I dont know if this goes here or not so if it doesn't can someone please move this for me? Ty for your help in advance.

My girlfriend of one year and 3 months is thinking about running away from home because her mom always tells my gf that she was a accident and that she doesnt love her and that is when my gf starts to cry and get depressed but today her mom said things she has never said before, so my gf wanted to slit her wrist and die because of that but she didnt because I made her promise she would never do that again. She keeps telling me that she will be ok if she runs away but I don't want her to run away because I know it is too dangerous. So can anyone give me any advice on how to help her out of this? Oh and if this helps, we live in different states... Ty for advice in advance again

[Nathan Numberless]

You live in different states? ??? :confused: How does that work?

[confid3ntial]

What do you mean how does that work?

[dontfiguremeout]

He meant how does that work to have a gf in a different state? You need to tell her to go see a therapist! That will be the best way for her to recover from what happened, and also from the past, from her mother, and what can happen in the future! Getting professional help is more beneficial from us teens, because they already experienced teenage years, they know what we are going through, plus they are professionally trained to handle these situations and answers!

[confid3ntial]

She has tried that but she said it didn't help because her mom does that to her almost everyday and I know she does because she calls me almost everyday crying for me to help her. Can't she get help from child support or something?

[dontfiguremeout]

Then she needs to get her mother into therapy, or she needs to talk to a trusted adult, like a friends mom, or even a teacher! Believe it or not, but a teacher would help out somehow!

[confid3ntial]

Well, her mom is probably the most stubborn person you'll ever meet I know that for a fact too. I'll talk to her about it as soon as I can though, thanks for the advice.

[Matt_2012]

Wow, thats so dog... what a mother eh.

[confid3ntial]

Anyone have any advice? I really need help right now :( she won't reply to my texts and she got into a big fight with her mom. Help please

[confid3ntial]

She is 13 and in 8th grade so no way she will be able to get a job and if there is anything you want to know just tell me, ill be glad to help you help me

[SpasticatedPengiun]

I actually asked my mum if I was an accident, she said I was 'unplanned' but frankly I dont care if I was an accident or not, tell your girlfriend to not run away as she wont be able to get a job, there are some homeless sick-o's in the world and she should be greatfull that she's alive, even if she was an accident like me :D

[confid3ntial]

Thanks for the help :) I convinced her to not run away from home