Something I Don't Get...

[Blessthefall]

I'm a pretty nice person. Those aren't by my standards, they're by the standards of my school. No one in that school who knows me thinks otherwise. I do a lot for other people, I talk to everyone, and I listen.. Things guys don't do nowadays, but hey, it's who I am.
Now, I love it when I have a girlfriend. It makes me smile when I think about how two people matter to each other like that, and as a fellow selfish human being, the feeling's amplified when I'm one of the two people. However, I can not ever seem to even attract a girl. I don't lack confidence; though I don't openly show it, it's implied in my manner. When I do attract one, I either date her and she turns out to be the opposite of what I like, or I'd never want to date the girl in the first place. And I've tried the "Screw it, solo's my number" routine. It lasted for a whole two days before I realized that it wasn't my thing. I'm kind of clueless here.

[Gandalf]

I'm a pretty nice person. Those aren't by my standards, they're by the standards of my school. No one in that school who knows me thinks otherwise. I do a lot for other people, I talk to everyone, and I listen.. Things guys don't do nowadays, but hey, it's who I am.
Now, I love it when I have a girlfriend. It makes me smile when I think about how two people matter to each other like that, and as a fellow selfish human being, the feeling's amplified when I'm one of the two people. However, I can not ever seem to even attract a girl. I don't lack confidence; though I don't openly show it, it's implied in my manner. When I do attract one, I either date her and she turns out to be the opposite of what I like, or I'd never want to date the girl in the first place. And I've tried the "Screw it, solo's my number" routine. It lasted for a whole two days before I realized that it wasn't my thing. I'm kind of clueless here.

Maybe if you desire a relationship you could make friends with somebody who has things in common (the oldest cliche probably) or alternatively you could relax and enjoy being single because it means less pressure to support another person emotionally, but you can do as you choose anytime you like.

It's about being comfortable in your own comany, if you aren't enough for yourself it's unlikely you'll be enough for another person.

Relax, somebody always comes along when you least expect it.