What is up with this guy?

[Extreme586]

There is this guy who I'm really attracted to. Recently every time he notices me he stares at the ground until we pass each other. I know this because I back glance occasionally and also have seen him out of the corner of my eye lift his head as I go by. Every time we look into each others eyes and hold it for an unnatural few seconds I really feel like I see who he really is. He's a very bold and funny kid but when he looks into my eyes, he gets this glazed over look and almost draws back into himself (maybe even looks sad occasionally).
We both don't eat lunch and go straight to the library to do hw alone. So what do you think? I want to do something but can't think of a good first move (if i even should do one at all). Please Help!

[West Coast Sheriff]

When u guys are doing homework go over and talk to him, get to know him work together

[booboo22]

He probably likes you too. He's nervous about looking at you because he doesn't know if you like him. Can't hurt just to I talk to him.

[Extreme586]

I've been thinking about asking him out to lunch, but maybe just going over and talking to him at first and doing homework and stuff would be better?

[TigerBoy]

I don't know how it is at your school whether lunch might be a bit too public for him if he's not out or he's shy about it. Whatever you feel comfortable with - if he turns down one, you've got the other one in reserve.

[joshstar]

yes mate go 4 it i think he likes u

[Light Warrior 7]

OMG!! He's in love with you!! :D I'm so happy, I'm grinning from ear to ear :D Talk to him.. NOW!!





.....or it could be he hates you. But, that would be impossible. Why would a person avoid eye contact when you two have barely spoken to each other?

[OregonStateDude]

Yeah, all the signs are there that this guy is into you. But he's too shy to make the first move.

You need to find a way to do homework together. Then find a way to "accidentally" touch his hand. If he doesn't pull back, then it's game on!

[Extreme586]

Just an update for some of you, he's by no means shy. It almost feels like he doesn't really know how to approach me. I've actually pretended I didn't see him (crowded walking to class) when we were passing by one another and I could have sworn he was looking at me. A lot of the time he is the first one to look away when he sees me so I thought that was a bit curious.

Wish me luck I'm probably going to try and talk to him tomorrow, I will let you all know when something happens!

9/12/12 Update: So there is this corner in the library i have gone for the last couple of days, he usually sits in the larger part of the library. Today when i walked in i didn't see him so i went and sat down, and he was where i usually sat facing out a window so he couldn't see me. Fire alarm was pulled towards the end of the period and he noticed me but i didn't really get as good of a chance to talk to him today. Saw him with his friends and realized how out of my league he is, or atleast thats how i felt. Despite how sad I am atm and how the day went (poorly) i am going to talk to him tomorrow if i get a good opportunity.

[joshstar]

yea let us nohow it gose good luck man

[Koffing]

It sounds liekhe likes you, but take it easy. Just talk to him during study, as you planned to do ;)

Good luck mate, and it would be cool if you update what happens ;) :)

[dontfiguremeout]

How bout you first talk to him, and make a friendship! I'm straight, but usually when I want to be friends with someone I stare at them in a way, so maybe he wants to be your friend too.

[Extreme586]

Well he is friends with plenty of cool people who I could never really talk to. I always got too shy and pretty much kept to myself, so why he would want to be friends with me would be a mystery.

[dontfiguremeout]

Because it's not up to his friends to decide if he should be friends with you! The whole cool people I think is BS! People do not get in the way of someone being friends. So how bout you go talk to him when you guys are alone then! And if your too scared in person, how bout you talk to them through text, or fb! Honestly this is just showing he wants to be your friend! And if you get info later, then maybe more of a friend, just don't be afraid to talk to him!

[wish_master_TWA]

Sounds like he WANTS to get to know you, but he's too shy to talk to you! Pretty cute honestly :D if I were you, I'd go and talk to him, get to know him, and let whatever happens happen :D Best of luck!

[donk]

Yeah, I get like this - there's a guy I pass by when I go out and I think he's older than me - but he's got an enormous bulge which moves as he walks - its not false you cn see the outline of his glans and i get really hot and want to ask him to fuck me - but of course I don't in case he beats me up - there's a lot of gay-bashers around where i live - and yeah I've resigned myself to being a gay person cos I prefer a guy to a girl. No disrespect, but a girl's fanny smells like fish - which puts me off.:P

[The Mockingjay]

Well he is friends with plenty of cool people who I could never really talk to. I always got too shy and pretty much kept to myself, so why he would want to be friends with me would be a mystery.

Don't be down on yourself, it sounds like he likes you back! When you're both doing homework, just try to make some casual conversation i.e "Oh, you're doing Chem too?" "When was the Weimar Republic founded again?" etc. Even sit down next to him if you're feeling brave! Just because he hangs around with the popular kids doesn't mean he won't like you. I generally hang around with the popular ones and I wouldn't care where on the social ladder prospective boyfriends are! Be brave, you never know what might happen! :)

[Koffing]

What do you hate most, things you did do or things that you didn't do? Just go for it mate! Otherwise you might hate yourself for not trying. I know it's hard but you can start with a simple hello when you see him. Good luck mate ;)

[Matt_2012]

Yeah, I get like this - there's a guy I pass by when I go out and I think he's older than me - but he's got an enormous bulge which moves as he walks - its not false you cn see the outline of his glans and i get really hot and want to ask him to fuck me - but of course I don't in case he beats me up - there's a lot of gay-bashers around where i live - and yeah I've resigned myself to being a gay person cos I prefer a guy to a girl. No disrespect, but a girl's fanny smells like fish - which puts me off.:P "No disrespect, but a girl's fanny smells like fish - which puts me off" hahaha this cracked me up big time!


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