parents are mad at me

[ECSTASY]

well, im a guy who doesn't have anything to do in his life...
the only hobby i have in my life , is computer and net.
im kinda addicted to them...
as soon as i get to home from workplace , i turn on the computer and i use it till 2 a.m. even.
i have 1 close friend only... nobody gets out of home with me... cause there is no hobby outside home for teens in iran... even if i go out with a girl , they'll arrest me!
no parties,no concerts, no dating, nothing exists for teenagers here. just a fucking net.
i think i've been spending 80% of my life using computer.

my parents are mad at me cause i use computer so much ,i don't know what to do really.
any advice? : | :/

[Loreley]

Hm..start going out, meet new people and try to do more friends. You can also tell to a classmate with whom you have a good relationship, to go to the cinema, in a concert, or for a walk. A good idea is also cycling in the nature.

[Professional Russian]

If you haveing else todo tell that you have nothing else to do. If its illegal obviously you shouldnt do it but do they know its illegal?

[Breakeven]

try to use it less , computer is not going anywhere
go out and enjoy life! , start a hobby , spend some time with ur family

[dontfiguremeout]

Start figuring out what you want to do in life? Based on that, you can find many ideas on what you can do besides using the computer! Biggest thing is go find a friend (make new friends!) and go to the park with them, and have fun! Play with a soccer ball (football there), or play catch! Also find a new hobby! You'll find out that playing outside, or finding a new hobby is so much better than the internet!

[ECSTASY]

Hm..start going out, meet new people and try to do more friends. You can also tell to a classmate with whom you have a good relationship, to go to the cinema, in a concert, or for a walk. A good idea is also cycling in the nature.

as i said there is no concerts here...all of the movies are islamic and they suck. :/

If you haveing else todo tell that you have nothing else to do. If its illegal obviously you shouldnt do it but do they know its illegal?

yeah they do...i still tell them there isn't any hobby for me outside but they don't accept that

try to use it less , computer is not going anywhere
go out and enjoy life! , start a hobby , spend some time with ur family

my family is very busy... my sister is married and she went to her own house.
my dad and mom works too. they get out of home with me less.

Start figuring out what you want to do in life? Based on that, you can find many ideas on what you can do besides using the computer! Biggest thing is go find a friend (make new friends!) and go to the park with them, and have fun! Play with a soccer ball (football there), or play catch! Also find a new hobby! You'll find out that playing outside, or finding a new hobby is so much better than the internet!

nice idea but i won't find a REAL friend here . im in a school full of muslims .they would hate me if i tell them i'm agnostic. i just act like muslims there.
so i can't find so much friends.
anyway , you are right maybe...
maybe i have to find another hobby for myself.

[dontfiguremeout]

Honestly, you don't even need to tell them what you believe in! That's your personal business for them not to know about! Just start making more friends and hanging out with them!

[ECSTASY]

Honestly, you don't even need to tell them what you believe in! That's your personal business for them not to know about! Just start making more friends and hanging out with them!

well but i don't like them... they just talk about god , religion, quran and their holy prophet lol
anyway , yup,i think i need to get in society .

[Loreley]

as i said there is no concerts here...all of the movies are islamic and they suck. :/
Maybe, if you lend a movie from a dvd club?

[ECSTASY]

Maybe, if you lend a movie from a dvd club?

they cut some parts of the movies, i download movies...but im still watching it on my pc if i get it? : s

[Jess]

maybe you can try reading? are you allowed to read books, like fiction? is there a library?

or would they all be Islamic again? :/

[ECSTASY]

yeah there is. but personally i don't like reading. we have around 4 exams a day in school times. i study a lot and i get tired of reading in summers.
i just like nightlife and raves . but i have to wait till i get 18 to get the addresses illegally :P

[Loreley]

maybe try going to the gym or learning a martial art?

[West Coast Sheriff]

Well maybe u can tell than that's all there is to do Round her
Or maybe u can use the computer a little less

[Cicero]

Try to get into a sport if they have them there, try working out, or try taking walks or exercisin, even try working longer so your on your feet more. It will also take your mind off of all that might be going on.

[FreeFall]

So you've been speaking to your parents, but that's not working.
I'd say try seeing if new things would interest you, you can dislike people no harm in that but I recall you basically having to lie about your religion to stay alive? So continue that lie, put up a front until you can go where you need/want to go. It's really going to suck sorting the people but hopefully you can find people to speak to that have more a life outside of their beliefs.

[ECSTASY]

maybe try going to the gym or learning a martial art?

yeah i started sports... using gym tools in my own home :)

Well maybe u can tell than that's all there is to do Round her
Or maybe u can use the computer a little less

well there is just sports for me at this moment :P i need to wait till i get 18 . then i can join raves :P

Cena you will always have a friend in me :) When you can PM contact me anytime.

thx mate :) of course i'll PM you :) ;)

Try to get into a sport if they have them there, try working out, or try taking walks or exercisin, even try working longer so your on your feet more. It will also take your mind off of all that might be going on.

yeah there is nearly a week i started sport...i feel good now . i don't even get depressed . :)

So you've been speaking to your parents, but that's not working.
I'd say try seeing if new things would interest you, you can dislike people no harm in that but I recall you basically having to lie about your religion to stay alive? So continue that lie, put up a front until you can go where you need/want to go. It's really going to suck sorting the people but hopefully you can find people to speak to that have more a life outside of their beliefs.

this is actually what i'm doing , untill i get out of this hell :/