Messed up?

[TheCoolKid1337]

Hey. I'm 13 and I think i'm messed up. I can imagine me marrying a girl, but I can't imagine having sex with her. I can't imagine marrying a guy but I can imagine having sex with one.

What's going on? Is this normal?

[itsthat0n3kid]

its just your hormones dude. dont worry so much. you will figure things out as time goes on. dont forget you are only 13.
good luck (:

[Evancosta]

A lot of teenage boys go through this in life. You aren't messed up. You have a physical attraction to guys yet an emotional attachment with girls. It get's confusing, I know. You are only 13. You are far too young to be thinking about marriage. In two or three years, you will have a much clearer idea of who you are.

[ExhibitG]

Hey. I'm 13 and I think i'm messed up. I can imagine me marrying a girl, but I can't imagine having sex with her. I can't imagine marrying a guy but I can imagine having sex with one.

What's going on? Is this normal?

i'm somewhat of the same way. it means your emotionally attracted to girls but sexually attracted to guys. in my opinion, it's a variation of bisexuality.

[Jtyler]

Partially the same

[West Coast Sheriff]

Yeah it's just hormones and curiosity.

[darkie]

This is exactly, as in exactly the way I feel. It's all part of growing up, testing and trying out which one you'd really prefer. There's still a lot of time to know and learn more about yourself. :)

[TigerBoy]

Emotional feelings are more easily influenced by society etc. Your emotional feelings will change as you learn more about yourself.

Sexual attraction can be ramped up by hormones.

Neither of these facts will predict whether you end up being bi / straight /gay. Just enjoy whatever you are today, and accept that it may well be different tomorrow.

[ImCoolBeans]

P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[Thunder1117]

yea, thats normal, dont worry, you will figure it out soon :)

[BakeBake]

Just hormones dude, you know that you are straight, but aren't completely comfortable with girls, guys usually a lot closer together. So imagining having sex with a gender that you are closer to is not a big deal. And if you are positive of the type of gender that you like, it is no big deal to "experiment" with close guy friends. Experimenting can include jacking off together, give one another handjobs, blowjobs, or even having sex. And if you do any of those you are not considered gay unless you fall in love with him.

[danny7]

Hey. I'm 13 and I think i'm messed up. I can imagine me marrying a girl, but I can't imagine having sex with her. I can't imagine marrying a guy but I can imagine having sex with one.

What's going on? Is this normal?

same thing with me!

[Mirage]

It's just hormones. Things will sort out and become much clearer in a couple years. I know how you're feeling, I felt like that but things straitened out for me :)

[joshstar]

wow im the same i thought it was just me

[SuperSuraj]

That happened to me when I was your age. I always pictured my life with a wife and three kids, however I had no idea how I was going to make those kids because vagina was disgusting and terrifying to me LOLOL. The older you get the more your thoughts should level out. Right now I'm positively gay and I only think about being with guys, sexually and emotionally. Give yourself some time to figure everything out (: