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VictoriaGotaSecret
September 7th, 2012, 09:52 PM
i made a appointment with my school guidance counsler to talk about how my dads abuse toward me and to get help. but im really afraid to go when im called to his office. im afraid of what my dad will do if he finds out about me talking to my counsler. my dad always gets overly angry and abusive when someone finds out about what he's done.

xXJust Jump ItXx
September 7th, 2012, 10:09 PM
You really need to talk about it, Tori! Im not to good with this stuff... But have you dad go outta the room and explain your afraid he may abuse you because you let the counselor about this stuff. In the end this should help you, get things in the past... fix things.

Spock
September 7th, 2012, 11:20 PM
talk to the counciler and tell them the fear of what wil happen if he finds out and they will find ways around it. If they had any reason to believe he was going to harm you when you left school they would call social services or the police t protect you. It wont hurt to try to get somee help.

SmexiLexie510
September 8th, 2012, 01:13 PM
My father used to be the exact same way and I was always afraid of talking about it in case he'd blow up at me. But it needs to be done to help you in the future. It will be worth the stress of it if they can help you. Good luck

Destructive Impulse
September 8th, 2012, 01:16 PM
Just stay strong. I think it's best if you talk about it.