BFF's GF

[Spock]

i will make it short and sweet:
I think i have fallin in love with my best friends girlfriend.
Any help?

[Manjusri]

So in order to fall in love with someone you have to have some kind of regular conversations right? Whether it be flirting or just talking. Meaning right off the bat you're going behind your friends back and messing around with his girlfriend. Unless of course you're just another one of those people who fall in love with someone after saying two words to them.

Help? No i don't have any. My advice is to drop whatever you might have going on with her. It's not going to end well.

[Blur]

Probably a crush, just wait it out, no matter how hard it seems. Better yet, find a viable "candidate" to replace her so you don't feel compelled to tell your friend what you're thinking of all the time!
People often mistake passion for love/being "in love".
(For me), passion/crushes are an initial period that doesn't last a huge amount of time and is rekindled over time, only if there's love (where you have a hard time imagining life without a certain person, yet you don't think of him/her 24/7/365, like when you're crushing).

[Spock]

So in order to fall in love with someone you have to have some kind of regular conversations right? Whether it be flirting or just talking. Meaning right off the bat you're going behind your friends back and messing around with his girlfriend. Unless of course you're just another one of those people who fall in love with someone after saying two words to them.

Help? No i don't have any. My advice is to drop whatever you might have going on with her. It's not going to end well.

he knows we talk but he doesnt go to the same school anymore and she does. We text regualary and he knows. He gave me her phone number lol. She is really nice and i know its not a crush because this is the first time i felt this. I have had mulitple girlfriend and didnt feel this way with them.

[Blur]

I'd say wait a bit, like a trial phase. If you feel the same after several weeks (or months if you can hold those feelings you believe you have) then I guess you'll have two options: stay quiet and let the pain flow through you OR, tell her and your friend afterwards. If she likes you she'll need to have a talk with him, if not, embrace the pain and lean on VT for comfort (we'd be here in case you'd need us :)! Not that it's a good thing, just reminding you).

As always these situations are gambles unfortunately.
I'm sorry if my answers suck but I tend to view these as unrealistic situations for me since I can't relate to having had girlfriends in the past nor friends with GF's at the moment.

[FreeFall]

Nope!
You said that golden ticket "i know its not a crush because this is the first time i felt this. I have had mulitple girlfriend and didnt feel this way with them."

Know why you feel that? Cuz you can't have her. She's off limits, off the market and that's what you're feeling. It's the human drive, 'oh can't have it that means I want it even more!' Other girlfriends, I'll assume, were single and free for your pickings. This one, is not.

You think you have a crush, and you very well may, but she's your BEST friend's girlfriend. So stop. She's not your's, and to do that to your pal, some friend.

[Taryn98]

This will end badly. Stop talking to her or plan on losing your friendship with your bff.

[Spock]

Nope!
You said that golden ticket "i know its not a crush because this is the first time i felt this. I have had mulitple girlfriend and didnt feel this way with them."

Know why you feel that? Cuz you can't have her. She's off limits, off the market and that's what you're feeling. It's the human drive, 'oh can't have it that means I want it even more!' Other girlfriends, I'll assume, were single and free for your pickings. This one, is not.

You think you have a crush, and you very well may, but she's your BEST friend's girlfriend. So stop. She's not your's, and to do that to your pal, some friend.

no, its because for once in my life a girl actualy likes talking to me because she texts me i dont start thr convo she does and it feels nice to be noticed

[FreeFall]

I sincerely doubt that she's the first girl to ever initiate conversation with you but ok. Still, she's your best friend's girl. Don't act on your feelings yet.

[West Coast Sheriff]

Unfortanetely this would result in u having 2 chose between ur friend and his girlfriend. And if she doesn't like you back then u lost both of em. So I'd hide my feelings for her if I were in her shoes.