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holagurrl
September 7th, 2012, 08:36 AM
Hey all!! :) First time posting here. I came across this website looking for some advice and this place seems pretty cool (except for the obvious creepers LOL) and figured I would join.

Anyways I'm posting because I just broke up with my last bf because he has a thing for his sister. I'm like really freaked out and grossed out by it. Like at first I started noticing him checking her out, always staring at her ass and boobs and I was like whatever there is no way. So I just pushed it out of my mind but then it was like he was always trying to like catch her or walk in on her like when she was in the bathroom or changing and it happened way to many times for it to be a coincidence. Like why would he walk in her room when he KNEW she was changing? But still I was like whatever, no way that's too weird. Anyways I caught him going through her phone looking at naked pics with a hard on and I freaked and dumped him.

So like is this like a common thing? Being into your siblings or whatever? Because I have two an older brother and a younger sister and there is no way I could ever think of them in a sexual way. It's just so sick and wrong to me. No offense if you're into that or whatever. I guess lol. Sorry I'm just still really hurt, freaked and confused about this.

Mortal Coil
September 7th, 2012, 08:56 AM
Eugh. No way. I could never... ew. I mean, I will admit that, from a completely objective standpoint, some of my relatives are attractive people, but nothing like what your guy did. He sounds like he could use some help.

FreeFall
September 7th, 2012, 12:03 PM
Family is not supposed to sexualize each other like that...they're siblings, he's disgusting. No it's not common, at last not in my culture but if it is though and I have no idea...holy crap ew.

StoppingTime
September 7th, 2012, 01:02 PM
Puberty :arrow: Relationships and Dating.

And no, I don't think the is a very common or "normal" thing to be doing. Ever.

OregonStateDude
September 7th, 2012, 03:27 PM
Eeewwww, that's just disturbing. You did the right thing by dumping him; getting chubbed up over your own sister is wrong on like a million levels.

I'll admit, I think my 11 yr old brother has a cute body, but I could NEVER picture him in a sexual way. That would be just eeeeww. :eek:

cassy95
September 7th, 2012, 06:00 PM
I can't imagine my brother being like that with me in public or that juvenile. That's just too obsessed.

aprilshowers
September 8th, 2012, 05:47 PM
Eww. God no.

Pittsburgh
September 2nd, 2013, 05:21 PM
Sometimes the closeness we share gets turned into feelings. Sad to say but it works for some ppl

The Enderwoman
September 2nd, 2013, 06:03 PM
That is definetly not normal. I could never think of my siblings in that way...

Gumleaf
September 3rd, 2013, 02:30 AM
This is not normal as everyone has said. There is something seriously wrong with him and breaking up with him was the most sensible action you could take.

Harley Quinn
September 3rd, 2013, 06:13 AM
Please don't bump old threads. :locked: