So confused! Am i doing the right thing? Please help me!

[Blood&Rain]

Hi,
Right here goes.
Theres this girl at my school. I Love her.
She already has a boy friend.
Ive loved her for 4 and a half years now.
She knows, and we still get on well, but shes still going out with this guy.

Now this is the part where im getting confused and need help. Theres another girl, who I get on well with as a friend. She fancies me. I like her but not like that. A few weeks ago she asked me out. I was going to saya yes, but im not sure why i didnt. Somthing just didnt seem right. Wasnt 100% sure. I feel really bad about this now. I dont want to hurt her, but shes just not my type.

And theres a third girl! I think i like her. Im so confused about this im not sure though! We get on really well, and we're both single. Ive always felt something for her, since ive met her (about year and a half ago).
I want to wait until the first girl breaks up with her boyfriend but theyve been going out for 3 years! It just doesnt seem like its going ti happen!

What i want to know is should i wait, go out with the second girl who im not sure about, or ask out the third girl? I think it would work well with me and the third girl, but I just cant let go of the first girl!

[Prince Jellyfish]

Hey
Blood&Rain, you wouldnt happen to be talking about me and Jess when you refer to "the first girl" would you?

AWWWWKKKKWWARRRRDDDD!!!!!! XD

[Silverfist64]

Hey
Blood&Rain, you wouldnt happen to be talking about me and Jess when you refer to "the first girl" would you? Personally I think you should go for numer 3;)

that really is kinda akward.

I say go with number 3. I think you have the best chance with her and it should work out. I almost have the same problem but not quite. I like 3 girls and dont know which one to go for. Luckily its alot easier for me because their all sinngle.:yeah:

[The Resurrected One]

Woah! This thread has turned into a circus! I say go for number 1, competition is always good...in this situation.

Good, baby, verrry good!

[Silverfist64]

Woah! This thread has turned into a circus! I say go for number 1, competition is always good...in this situation.

Good, baby, verrry good!

yea but that would be interferring with a nicely going relationship. if he likes the girl enough he shouldnt want to ruin anything in her life that could make her depressed and then that would make him depressed. you dont have to take my word for it but #3 would probably be your best choice. #1 is taken and you can wait later in life, #2 you dont have feelings for so it wouldnt work out, and #3 is single and you like her enough for it to work

[The Resurrected One]

Right, ok. #3 should be your first choice.

[Serenity]

Don't waste any more time waiting for the first girl. You'll never be able to lead a real life if you turn away every relationship thinking, "But what if....?" especially when there's such little chance that anything will come of it. She knows how you feel and has chosen to invest her emotions in another, so I think we can safely say she doesn't feel the same way about you. As hard as it is, you need to move on from her.

Don't ever date someone out of pity- it would be much more cruel than rejecting her. You don't like her like that so don't try to force the relationship. It would end badly for both of you and very likely create such awkwardness that you wouldn't even be able to remain friends. Been there, done that.

It's just common sense. You feel some attraction for the third girl, she feels some for you, you have next to no chance with the first girl and you don't like the second girl. "Door number 3, please, Bob."

[Indian gal]

I am sure you should go for the third one... it is not going to work out if you go with the first one. I'm sure.

[fllarson]

I don't think it's right for you to "go" for the third girl. Because if you do, it's like you're just using her to cover up how you feel for girl #1. Maybe, you don't even like her. Maybe, your just conditioning yourself to like her.

If you ask me, I'd say wait for girl#1. Love is patient, says the Good Book. If you really love her... you'd wait for her.

[The Resurrected One]

This is to the creator of this thread:

Are you friends with Jess? If so, keep it that way and don't tell her that you want her or anything and that you love her. Just stay as a normal friend for her. Then i a while, maybe Dan and her will split up, and then...SHOWTIME! (Sorry Dan :D )

Until then, man, go for number 3, yeah. If it works and you are happy, then you and her and Dan and Jess can live happily ever after. :D

[Sugaree]

Well I would go with #3 since you have something for her. 1 is taken os don't go there dude!

[Blood&Rain]

Thanks. Ive going for number 3! Ive told her and she seems pleased.:D