again my ex after 7 months

[Jordan1234]

well my ex again... I've told you in previous posts that i broke up with her on 12th january 2012... so I was talking with her u know on facebook once in month but she is constantly asking me every month if i have a girlfriend if i love someone etc.But i still have strong feelings for her at school I see her every day almost every hour on school and i can't control my feelings.. I said to her that i still love her and she didn't reply anything.. How to get close with her again? Anyone here with simillar situation? help me :D

thanks.

[DerBear]

To be honest if she is your "ex" then you broke up for whatever reason and to be honest you can't make someone "fall" for you. It has to be there feelings. Even if you could make her fall for you again, what are the chances of the relationship working out, If it never worked the first time? -->Just something to think about...

My personal thoughts are that you should maybe speak to her but about the relationship and have an honest chat.

I know this is probably not the advice you were exactly looking for but to be honest, it is something you need to think about and be aware of.

look on the bright side of things, you're young and will have plenty more chances at relationships

[TigerBoy]

Hard to know where she's coming from but some suggestions ...

she's having a hard time moving on and she's a bit jealous that you might be (like, you move on first means she looks like the loser in her head)
she may still have feelings and is having a hard time letting go so is worried you might not be available IF she ever wants to get back together
she is that personality type that likes to control people and you aren't hers to control anymore
she just wants to be nosy, maybe she's still hurting and wants to make sure you are too (sounds mean, but people can get like that)


Also +1 on Derri's good advice.

[FreeFall]

It creeped me out a little that you said she'd ask you every now and again if you were taken or crushing on someone. Why does you ex need to know if you've moved on or not?

But yea, you can't force her to be your girlfriend again. try talking to her again, see if you can be a couple again when time passes, but remember why you broke up to begin with. I doubt she or you are any different than when you were 7 months ago, people can change in the blink of an eye but I doubt that's the case here.

[Jordan1234]

I don't know I talk with her more now almost every day, she is telling me that she is very hurt by one guy that she love almost 7 months (i broke up with her before 7 months) and she said that that guy is her first love and he won't have another boyfriend if he isn't with him...