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Danny_boi 16
September 5th, 2012, 08:07 PM
How do i ask a guy if he'll go out with me?

I'm a guy myself so... yeah :rolleyes::D
Dimitri
September 5th, 2012, 08:32 PM
Just like you ask a girl...actually, I asked Joshua (my boyfriend) if he wanted to go and get some coffee...
CalebG.
September 5th, 2012, 08:34 PM
you probably should figure out if hes interested in males too if not that would be hard but if he is just get to know him then ask.
FreeFall
September 5th, 2012, 11:31 PM
Agreed with CalebG. But other than that, there's no difference than if you were to ask a girl. Just sidle up, ask them if they want to go somewhere if you're thinking of taking them out to a place to ask them or just say you like them, jazz it up a little and then ask if they'd like to be your boyfriend/date you. Good luck!
paulsmith1988
September 5th, 2012, 11:48 PM
Most of the dudes who clicked on this article are going to be like, “Um… be female and exist?” When I asked around to research for this article, my male friends said that if they like a girl, it doesn’t matter how she asks him out – they’ll be excited it happened. That’s fine; I’m sure that’s true. But, they also said, if they don’t like her, there’s nothing she can do; it’s just not going to happen. Guys, I hate to inform you, but you are not as simple as you think you are. Girls, being manipulative is fun. Here are my tips on how ask a guy out.

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Source - http://www.smosh.com/smosh-pit/articles/how-ask-guy-out-if-youre-girl
TigerBoy
September 6th, 2012, 04:18 AM
My boyfriend was a good friend first, and knew I was gay but he wasn't out. So I suppose I've been making it obvious for a while by paying him compliments (genuine things I thought but you might hold back) so he could get a clue. Then one time when we were chilling as friends I'd said something a bit obvious and apologised and explained I was attracted to him and .... it went well :)

I think guys our age often forget the friendship & romance bit, and that needs to be there first so the more solid you can make your friendship, the better it will go imho.

If you are not out then you could ask him out like you would ask any new friend you are trying to make. Invite him to do something with you that you know he enjoys for eg. Once you have some trust you can test out if he's gay and interested.