ok so. . .

[crazydude_14]

Theres this one person that is in 9th grade and i am in 8th but we have a class together. i am not sure if that person is a guy or a girl? the person seems like a girl but i am not sure. how exactly do i ask that person without offending them? or how would i find out?

[hardcore-smile]

first . why is this in relationships and dating . i dont see the conecction. second does this person look like a girl or a guy . hmm maybe when she/he asks to go to the bathroom you can follow them and see which one he/she goes into boys or girls.or if you have gym class and you have to shower after or change then see if she/he goes into the girls shower or the guys if they go into the guys dont sneek a peek to see if he/she has a penis okay . thats just creepy. and dont push your friend into she/he when their changing to see ethier. i would be offended. maybe its a guy that bi or gay. ??

[Lifesreject]

First thing dont just go up and ask them. That would be so embaressing!! Like hardcore-smile said why dont you just see what bathroom they use but dont like follow them just to find out. Whats this persons name or do you not no it and thats y you are asking is its a guy or girl.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Well what is this... um... "person's" name? That might help... unless it's a gender non-specific name...

[The Resurrected One]

Do you know their name? If not, then go up and ask them. It is that simple.

[thesonicguy]

On paper give him/her a note that says "ASL!". Or look to see bathroom he or she goes in!:P

[Gavin]

if your in the persons class then you should know the persons name or ask a friend to see if he/she knows