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RyLegit
September 4th, 2012, 10:06 PM
Okay so im 14 just starting highschool... guys turn me on i jack off to gay and straight porn... but i could never have a relationship with a guy, i also like girls a lot... a little sexually but more romantic wise will this pass... am i bi?
dontfiguremeout
September 4th, 2012, 10:09 PM
This is a phase that EVERY guy go through! Just live life, do what you do, and pretty soon this phase will go by! I am ending my phase, but here's something you need to know, DON'T label yourself right now. Wait till this phase is done, or when puberty is done. After the hormones died down, you can tell weather your gay, straight, or bi.
RyLegit
September 4th, 2012, 10:11 PM
Thanks so much!!!! im just so turned on by guys but i love being romantic to girls hopefully i'll know soon
dontfiguremeout
September 4th, 2012, 10:18 PM
Dude, I know what ya mean. It's a confusing time, I know one point I was confused, but I just stuck with what I have always said when I was little, and that was to be married to a beautiful woman, and now I'm more into girls like almost crazy now! (But not like for the sex) But it's just a tiny phase. If you need help just pm me (when you get 100+)
TigerBoy
September 5th, 2012, 10:14 AM
I'm gonna respectfully disagree with RealGone on one thing, or at least expand on it. Being confused and majorly horny is maybe a phase but you could still be bi and you've just not met a guy you like romantically (which is a lot harder to happen than boy / girl).
So yeah, you might not be so bothered about guys in a few years, but you could be, and then you are twice as lucky as me :P
But RealOne already said it : just do what feels good, love who you want and don't hurt anyone, and don't worry about labels.
Peace & love.
JustAnotherGay
September 5th, 2012, 02:01 PM
Look, most guys have feelings like this as they grow up....AND ITS COMPLETELY NORMAL! But sometimes guys get these feelings, and they never really go away....like me! Just be yourself and know that you are normal and don't worry about it! :)
fast8
September 5th, 2012, 03:25 PM
yea most guys go throw this sooner or later you will know if you are bi or not for now dont worry about it
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