Curious Friend?

[Quigy]

I have a pretty close friend and we are both 15 at about the same stage of puberty. Recently my friend has been acting weird and appears to be constantly horny. My friend frequently will touch me in a friendly, non sexual manor; but occasionally will touch me on my ass and say something funny. I thought nothing of this until today. Today, my friend invited me over and we played Xbox for a while with my other friend present as well. During mid game my friend mentioned touching my penis and I laughed. He also entities my penis several times until finally he loses a match to me. He then grabs my genitals and holds on for a second or two until I remove his hand. We are pretty close so I let it go and didn't feel mad. Finally towards the end of our time, he rolls over on the couch and wraps around me and starts clearly humping me. I pushed him over and I think he may have been erect due to the fact he hunched over for a bit. Finally he rolled again and put his ass in my face and began hugging and humping unobviously again as if it seemed he was just wrestling. Please tell me if you think he is curious and if he is, how should I react? I am pretty curious myself btw. Thanks!

[Row your]

Well I would tell him how you felt about the ordeal. I would be brutally honest about it.

[companioncube]

Yeah, I would do the same as above..

[Nferrothorn967]

I would tell him how i felt and if he wanted to experiment i would ask to take it slow

[West Coast Sheriff]

I would tell him how i felt and if he wanted to experiment i would ask to take it slow

Just tell him how to feel and ask to take it slow

[dontfiguremeout]

Umm well obviously it's your call! If you enjoyed it, then I guess do what he want's to do since you know what he wants to do, but if you did not enjoy it (as I can tell since that was just an awkward situation, even reading) tell him how you really felt, and just lay it flat saying it was very uncomfortable with you, and just please lay down the umm harshness? Forgot what word. haha. sorry.

[Mysterious Skin]

To Start off with, Did you like it? If you did say so. If you didn't tell him to back off. Be open, it's easier.

[Michael Anthony]

curious is an understatement for the way he was acting!
but you gotta figure out if you like playing around like that or not

[Lego]

Exactly^ if you're curious do what you wish. But good oppurtunity.

[Punisher1488]

Well if your curious too take advantage of it and if your not confortable with it tell him.

[jdps]

maybe he want to try something new, maybe..

[imagine95]

If you're curious and want to do something that why not take advantage of the opportunity? If however you're uncomfortable about that then tell him how you feel and go from there.

[TigerBoy]

Its kind of weird to have someone suddenly get like that even if you really like boys. I had guy do this when I was 13 (the grabbing the crotch and humping thing) and I didn't react too well because I was worried he'd realise he'd got me hard. and I had no idea how a 'normal boy' was supposed to react. Now it turns out he's straight, go figure.

If I could go back and change it, I'd have definately just said something like "hey you might want to cut it out unless you don't care you are turning me on" and talked about it.

[deeda95]

it seems that he is deff curious but maybe he is afraid of what you would say if he just said it. casually bring it up and find out if he was just messing around ad go from there

[fast8]

i say ask him an talk to him about it if you like then go along with it

[ddbumblebee]

Wow...first you've got to acknowledge his passion and keen interest in you ;) Nah, jokes aside, he is obviously pretty keen to experiment with you just depends if you want to, you've already said you're curious so...let it unravel :)

[JimmyIsNowAMan]

If he's a close friend then just ask him what he really wants. But let him know that he just can't grope or dry hump you without asking you. If you're curious too just tell him that but he needs to make it a mutual thing, not just one sided.

[Quigy]

Well just today, another incident occurred. My close friend, my other friend and me took a shower today in privacy. During the shower my friend kept staring at my genitals and soon became erect in which I just ignored.

[hotteengeek97]

It is up to you but I myself was and still am curious and i have a 3 friends that on the weekend we get together at one of our places (where there are no parents) and we do stuff like what you mentioned but i someone wants t stop we stop no questions asked but as other people have said talk to him and take it at your own pace.

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[tHe_Jester1080]

as far as the ass touching me and my friend grab each others all the time, as far the huming you id tell him to get the hell off and stop....unless you like it, lol

[Jtyler]

Look at my posts. My friend is EXCATLLY THE SAME he is always touching me for no apparent reason

[Danny_boi 16]

Well I would tell him how you felt about the ordeal. I would be brutally honest about it.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Yes

[JackieSmith]

haha I wouldn't like that at all, and I would just say something like What the **** are you doing?! But not in a angry way.

[Avenida105]

First if you are the type of person who doesn't like that then yeah you should tell him that you clearly don't feel comfortable with that.

As far as my friends go we often like as touching and grabbing that is fine with us, we often do like weird things but just as a joke, but the humping part... that really doesn't sound like sometime any dude would do haha.

[BakeBake]

Well this is easy, I am guessing that he is just curious and just wants you to realize that he wants to have some fun. Experiment with him. Just because you experiment it doesn't mean that you are gay, being gay means that you want to spend the rest of your life with a man. If you don't want that and you are positive then you know that you are straight. Next time react by grabbing him when he is humping you. Then tell him that you want to jack off with him, you can even give each other hand jobs, blow jobs or even have sex. Don't think that it is gay. And he finished the hard part for you, showing that you that he curious about you and wants to have fun. that is the hardest part because you never know what you are going to say. but i truly wished that my friend would do this to me. But next weekend, i am going to get him to sleep over and we are going to watch some porn, get horny, start to jack off, give each other hand jobs maybe and then maybe even move to blow jobs. The next few times we can even get into trying to have some sex. PM me if you want to talk about anything.

[habbohop]

He likes you. Definitely. TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT!
If you don't like it, he needs to remove himself from you. :P

[jaxian rhyder]

I say if u liked ot let it go if not tell him bout it
Also when u removed his hand he probly thought u were playing along
;)

[DerBear]

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