Good friends

[Tcasey95]

Me and this guy have been friends for a long time and we've both talked about jacking off together and maybe a blowjob. Would that be gay and way too odd? We are both 17. We've seen each other dicks like many other guy friends have.

[Coolguy10890]

Jacking off is fine. Idk bout BJ. Maybe thats fine? Never did it before so idk. But anal sex is way too far.

[justinglives]

Not weird at all.
Just bexperimental.
All guys would if the situaton was right.
Inthink most guys are just afraid of some1 finding out they did it with a boy!

[West Coast Sheriff]

Not weird at all.
Just bexperimental.
All guys would if the situaton was right.
Inthink most guys are just afraid of some1 finding out they did it with a boy!

It's just curiosity

[Luke91]

Jacking off and even b/j is what boys do and it is not gay at your age. It is experimenting. If you don't do it now, you may never know what is like.

[Row your]

It's just curiosity

[rodriguez_miker]

Its not gay, it is just the hormones and it is perfectly fine with you guys experimenting as long as you are both ok with it. You should not pressure anyone to do something they dont feel comfertable doing.

[Mysterious Skin]

Both Would be fine.. It's Just experimenting, Have fun!

[Lego]

Yeah its ok you are never too old doesnt mean you are gay, pleasure is pleasure

[Digital]

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[deeda95]

i think that is common for guys our age with raging hormones and all

[fast8]

not gay at all do it if you want an have fun

[ddbumblebee]

Uuuuuuuummmmmmm so I kinda disagree a little. I would j/o with a friend no matter what age. I would and have experimented when I was younger but I kind of think that giving a guy a bj at the age of 17 other than as a dare or joke or something like that is a bit more than 'experimenting'. Just me :)

[TigerBoy]

Uuuuuuuummmmmmm so I kinda disagree a little. I would j/o with a friend no matter what age. I would and have experimented when I was younger but I kind of think that giving a guy a bj at the age of 17 other than as a dare or joke or something like that is a bit more than 'experimenting'. Just me :)

Guys can do stuff like this for the first time at any age : who says it can't be experimenting?

EG: You could get married because thats what everyone expects you to do, live one a woman for 20 years, have a kid and and still want to try gay sex all that time ... because maybe you are actually gay / bi but society has pressured you to do the 'normal het thing'.

Much better if you try it out sooner to see if you like it, but some people have a hard time being themselves and may not get a chance or get the courage until later on.

[ddbumblebee]

I get where you're coming from but the dude never said it was his "first time" experimenting altogether? I got the impression that he decided to start experimenting with a particular friend. Well, I'm a person that believe's that giving someone a bj is a bit more than just experimenting when you're almost an adult. I just think that people doing stuff like that together goes a bit beyond 'experimenting' at that age.
I did presume though :) To me people who are unhappily married because they are confused about their sexuality or have been 'pressured' into being straight need a bit more backbone but that isn't for me to say.

[TigerBoy]

I get where you're coming from but the dude never said it was his "first time" experimenting altogether? I got the impression that he decided to start experimenting with a particular friend. Well, I'm a person that believe's that giving someone a bj is a bit more than just experimenting when you're almost an adult. I just think that people doing stuff like that together goes a bit beyond 'experimenting' at that age.
I did presume though :) To me people who are unhappily married because they are confused about their sexuality or have been 'pressured' into being straight need a bit more backbone but that isn't for me to say.

OK you can't just say harsh stuff and than say "but it isn't for me to say" as if that makes it cool.

People who are Gay or Bi risk their lives in some societies, and their health and freedom in many more. To say they need more backbone is really ignorant and insensitive : maybe you are lucky and live with really chilled and accepting people, but that isn't how it is for many people.

I have no idea what you think "more than experimenting" means : are you trying to give some sort of moral ultimatum to say "do this and you are gay, because I say so..." ??? People are allowed to try stuff out at any age. You are not the boss of them, and it is not your place to sit in judgement on then. You've expressed your opinion, I don't think it's helping anyone here so please stop repeating it.

[mostdeff]

i'm curious too and i want to do these things too, and the reason why i think im not gay is
because, i dont want a relationship with a guy.. I think as long as you want to end up with
a girl (marrying and stuff) you're not gay.

i agree 100%%%%%

[Bojan]

Yea there's nothing wrong with it. As long as you both enjoy it then keep doing it

[Xenon96]

It's like a bi-curious thing that most guys try at some point in there lives

[BakeBake]

It is not add at all. It also not gay unless you are attracted to each other and want to spend the rest of your life with them in a love relationship because that is what gay means. People think that having sex with another guy or giving a guy a BJ or HJ or even jacking off together is gay, but it is not.

[joshstar]

go 4 it have fun u both want 2 do it so just do it

[Mark97]

Jo wouldn't be odd in my opinion just guys looking to get off. The bj is something y'all wud have to talk abt and make sure ur comfortable with it. If u are then sure go for it lol

[Ben_E]

No wouldn't be gay or odd, it's just experimenting. I personally think it only becomes gay when feelings of love & wanting a relationship with the person your jerking off with start to form. If it's just two friends watching porn & jerking off for the pleasure of it, then there's nothing wrong with that in my book. And of course just jerking together leads to jerking each other and BJ's. But if you both enjoy it and have fun doing it, then who cares what other people say.

[VirtualGuy012]

It's really up to you

[Matt_2012]

Go for it, if you guys are comfortable with it i don't see why you shouldnt.

[josh_9]

i love and want to experiment a lot. go ahead!

[LSEagle2]

at your age, it happens its just experimentation my man, a lot of guys do this with their friends. its just rare to hear them discuses the situation

[Pyro99]

If you're 17 and good friends, it's obviously experimenting, even bjs. Anal sex is too much.

[Thanatos]

All about comfort level and what everyone is willing to do.

[RunnerForLife]

I would try that and I consider myself straight. Like Digital said, unless you want to end up marrying a guy, you're not gay

[gig-guy]

it wouldnt be gay, after like 20 may be gay...

[Fable]

not gay! dont worry its normal experimenting!

[PICAHO]

make a try for it. no problem. whatever kind of work u want to do with each other do it comfortably. dont shy from each other. it will be awesome.

[niceguy887]

Just be careful and have fun.