My best friend is.........

[Jtyler]

My best friend invited me to his house for a sleepover so I went. While I was there we were watching tv and he grabbed my .....

I woke up with him with his arm around my waist, my shorts pulled down half way. He then went back into his bed slowly thinking I was still asleep.



Sorry for all of the story telling. I just wanted to know if I should tell him that I knew what he was doing to me during the night. Advice:confused::confused:

[Manifest]

I would talk with him about it. That's a HUGE invasion of your privacy and if you didn't like it I suggest you make it clear to him to not let it happen again.

[JimmyIsNowAMan]

No one should ever touch another person without permission. Just talk to him kindly about it and see what his reasons were. If you liked what he was doing then let him know but that he just cant jump/hump you in your sleep. If you don't like it, then he needs to know.

[CcRoder]

Oh please talk to him.

Don't jump into it, but start off with a nice topic and then move into what you want to say.

If he's really your friend, he'll take what you say to heart.

[companioncube]

Oh man. Him doing that is a huge invasion of your privacy and space. You should tell him that you did know, and ask him what it was all about. By the looks of it, you were also uncomfortable, and that is also bad. Just slowly tell him and as a friend, he should understand.

[Jtyler]

He is always touching my

[companioncube]

He is always touching my dinga Lang long

This guy has some problems then. You need to talk to him about your privacy and stuff.

[nice]

He shouldn't be touching you like that without permission you should talk to him about it.

[Jtyler]

I a. Straight and I don't know If he is but once I let him touch with my clothes on but the he put his hand under my shorts with my underwear on squeezing my thing then he jumped on top of me!!!!!!!!!:eek::eek::):what:

[CcRoder]

I a. Straight and I don't know If he is but once I let him touch with my clothes on but the he put his hand under my shorts with my underwear on squeezing my thing then he jumped on top of me!!!!!!!!!:eek::eek::):what:

Maybe you could be more direct and just say "not here, and not now"?
Sorry if my suggestions are useless, I'm new at this :D

[Jtyler]

Thanks guys

[BakeBake]

Dude you are lucky, have fun with him, if you do that doesn't mean that you are gay. he has done the hardest part for you which is showing your friend that he wants to have fun. You can jack off together, give each other hand jobs, blow jobs and even have sex. All those acts are not gay. They are sexual acts. To be gay you have to love men and want to spend the rest of your life with them. As long as you two are both cool with having fun, then go for it. I want to do this with my friend next weekend.

[joshstar]

yea your lucky just enjoy and have fun

[Gogeta]

i would be happy :)) hahahaha but let him know and you could have a Jo Bud hahaha

[Coolboi]

did you like it you sure didn't stop him ? talk to him and tell him what you thought of it.

[hotteengeek97]

you should talk to him

[dontfiguremeout]

Well you have two options here. If you actually liked what he did, then play his game, because you know he will like it. But if you didn't like it, then talk to him about privacy! Just go up to him and say hey I didn't like what you did to me the other night, it was not cool, and you didn't give me any privacy, please don't do that again. Then he will stop.

[Lego]

Yeah I agree dude kind of messed up. Total invasion of your privacy. If you are curious you know who to go to but if not tell him you know and it needs to stop. Its ok to be curious but only if both people are ok with it.

[Mark97]

Def talk to him... but try not to comr off angry about it just gently tell him not to do that when ur sleeping but maybe u guys could like jerk off together or something if r open to that.

[Pyro99]

You should talk to him. Even if you liked it and you want to experiment with him, no one should EVER invade your privacy, they should always ask. Talk to him about. If you didn't like it, say " Hey, dude, last night was weird, blah blah blah, don't do it again." If you liked it say "Hey, dude, if you wanted to do something like that with me you should have just asked, I'd have said yes."

[Jtyler]

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[averagemuscleguy]

Yeah talk to him, even if you enjoyed it(which i would have ;)

[milestails]

u should talk to him if someone does that to me i would punch him in the face and tell them to dont ever touch me ever again

[Dwl4]

yeah if u like it then go for it, i would, but if Ur uncomfortable then talk to him, if it creeps u out then u need to tell him to stop.

[ImHotBeans]

wow
i think you should talk to him

[milestails]

if it make u uncomforable talk to him maybe he well understand

[josh_9]

Well, I think he was just trying to experiment with you. According to your signature, you say you're curious, so you just should've went with it.

[and__1]

it depends on whether u liked it or not. Either way just talk to him about it

[Sci01]

you should talk to him about it. make sure your know what he is trying to do.

[Rukua]

you could have a J/O buddy, just let him know whether or not you liked it, that is a huge invasion of privacy,

[pankakeman]

If you feel it was an invasion of your space, you should tell him, nut be sincere.

And remember, the level of guilt he will feel when u tell him this will be overwhelming, because he likes you that much of a friend that he would risk his relationship with you to do things that he wishes he could do with you, so remember that when telling him what you are going to tell him, and definately don't be too mean. It could crush him.

Of course, if you liked it, maybe you two could do stuff together sexually? Its your choice, but remember, he is a friend, and he likes you lots, so try not to hurt him.

[superstarB]

Talk to him if you were uncomfortable and
also if you liked it so it would be fun instead of
invading

[Dudes11]

Put your hand down his pants and do all that to him

[zerosix22]

First of all,did you like what he is doing? If you do,you need to confront him(be frank) and tell him you like it that way. If youre not comfy on what he did to you,he needs to know. He will stop if he is really your friend.

[redtukr]

I think you have to tell him if for no other reason hes your best friend and you have to be honest with yourself did you like it or did u just go along with it b/c if you said no the rest of the night would be wierd ffor the both of you

[Vincent_Dat_Guy]

Oh man. Him doing that is a huge invasion of your privacy and space. You should tell him that you did know, and ask him what it was all about. By the looks of it, you were also uncomfortable, and that is also bad. Just slowly tell him and as a friend, he should understand.

[Maxb2020]

I wish my freind would do that

[eric_am_i]

Yeah I would deff talk to him about privacy, unless you liked it. in that case, just play along.

[Duke Blue Devils]

I would talk to him about it. He invaded your privacy and that isn't okay unless they have permission... Hope I could help! :D

[AwesomeGuy15]

say it nice & calm tht u dont feel comfortable

[PICAHO]

he is not allowed to touch ur. . . . u should talk to him about it. he is not allow to touch ur . . . . without ur permission.

[brandon121]

talk to him about it cause thats an invasion of privacy

[younganddumb]

He can touch me lol

[average'teen]

I wish that happens to me

[Benm]

you should tell him how you feel about it

[Mikedamaniak]

If you did not like it, talk to him about it. If you didn't mind it and you've been looking for someone to experement with, than consider yourself lucky.

[BakeBake]

Talk to him, or just ask him if he wants to have fun, and mess around with him...

[showoffboy]

i would tell him. if u liked it and want to try stuff with him, thell him that. if u didnt and dont want to do anything, tell him that. either way he should honor what u say.

[klhohman16]

you should talk to him he was probably curious

[mustangboi]

Talk to him, that is a little weired

[BakeBake]

Your lucky, have fun with him, you guys seem close, don't worry about it...

[Michael Anthony]

tell him you know, and if you liked it, tell him you want to do it more

[Lovelife090994]

If you are uncomfortable, tell him. If you liked it, tell him.

[VirtualGuy012]

If you didn't like it, talk to him about it. If you did like it, talk to him about it and it may happen again

[StoppingTime]

Please don't bump old threads. :locked: